The Hallisy Homestead

The condition my condition is in....

2012-01-31T10:06:00.000-05:00

Pregnant, preggo, preggers, with child, creating life, knocked up... whatever you call it it is all the same, but with each day that passes I can see why it has both positive and negative connotations.

Because there is a parasite occupying my body:

I no longer can predict what should be normal bodily functions
I am tired all the time but that doesn't mean I am able to actually sleep
Meat is no longer an option, and can have disastrous consequences
There is a slight waddle to my walk that I can not shake
Crying comes at the drop of a hat, but recovery from it takes forever
Attention span and memory retention are things of the past
Everything happens at about half the speed that it did previously - walking, thinking, eating, getting dressed... It doesn't matter what it is, it somehow takes twice as long
People that have never been pregnant or have not been recently feel they can criticize everything from my food choices, to the amount of exercise I get, to my emotional perspective on my condition since this is supposed to be the happiest time of my life and I should be enjoying every moment. Some days I do feel that way, but other days I just feel like crap and need to share it with others so I can be reminded that I am not alone in feeling this way.

Because our precious little girl is growing inside me:

I can feel her movements and know that she is doing alright
My abdomen actually moves with the stronger kicks she is learning to complete, I can sit and watch it happen and be completely engrossed in the process
Picking out gifts for our little one brings me more joy than I could ever have anticipated
People are more sensitive to my needs in regards to physical strain, even complete strangers
If all else fails, if I feel like things are falling apart physically or mentally, all I need to say is that it is because I am pregnant and there really is little anyone can say in response to that argument without sounding self righteous or at least a little harsh
I can eat at any point during the day and while they may not like it at work, no one will object
For the first time in my life, doctor appointments are something I look forward to
I am reminded on a daily basis just how patient and loving my husband is, he puts up a seemingly endless number of ridiculous needs and meltdowns in any given 24 hour period and still manages to hold me and tell me it will all be alright in the end
I know that every strain, big or small, is worth the pain because in a few short months we will be holding our precious daughter in our arms.

The most common conversation I have had with my loving husband lately, at least twice a day, he really has the patience of a saint -
Me: I don't understand why this is happening.
Hubby: I know you are tired of hearing this, but it could be because you are pregnant.
Me: But I can usually do it without a problem
Hubby: Well, you are pregnant
Me: I know, but it wasn't a problem before, it doesn't make sense that it would cause this
Hubby: You are carrying another human inside you
Me: It's just so frustrating!
Hubby: *sigh* I know....

So, here I am. Happy and sad, excited and terrified, awake and exhausted, working my way through this time in my life that is both flying by and going at a snail's pace. It's hard to believe that our little girl's birth day is just one more trimester away...

The old year is gone, the new one just begun...

2012-01-20T09:17:00.000-05:00

This is truly a crazy time for us at the Hallisy Homestead. Last year we had so many blessings with my brother (-in-law) Joe and Stacie's wedding, a trip to Disney with them beforehand in the Spring, a cousin's wedding, numerous special events with family and friends, our friends Jessy & Jason's wedding, a couple trips to Chicago to visit with family, finding out that we are going to have a baby in May, and finding out that Joe & Stacie will be having one a month later! So much joy wrapped in a bit of chaos.

Keeping up with all that, John has also been a cantor at church for almost a year now, I continued to lector at church, I had my second season on the board of the Warren Community Gardens, we have done reasonably well improving our lifestyle to be a bit healthier and getting a bit more exercise overall, I thoroughly enjoyed Farmers' Market Sundays throughout the warmer months, and Riley has been the same happy little dog he always is.

Day to day things go on - we are both still employed and very happy for that, we are slowly getting ready for baby Hallisy's arrival ( I have done 2 oil paintings for the bedroom and we have the crib already put together), and we've shuffled a few things around the house and landscape in the past year that I think were all great improvements. It seems like there is always more to do, but that will always be the case.

John has been working hard at getting me to learn to relax and enjoy things as they come instead of worrying so much, I like to think he has made at least a little progress there :) though he may not be quite so optimistic...

I have continued working on my cooking blog, (http://cookingforpeaceofmind.blogspot.com/) and I think it is still going well, though since the start of the pregnancy my posts have dropped from 4/month to about 3/month, I have definitely seen an overall increase in visitors this year which makes me very happy. I love being able to share good food with others and hopefully inspire them a bit as other blogs have inspired me.

We are anxiously awaiting the arrival of our baby girl at the start of May and then her cousin in June. She has already received some lovely things from our family and friends. Her Aunt Kristin gave her her very first gift (two very cute outfits and a pair of red sparkly Mini Mouse shoes). She also received Christmas gifts from her Grandma & Grandpa Hallisy, Aunt Becca & Uncle Chris, and Aunt Stacie & Uncle Joe. We love her madly already, even when she is keeping me up more than half the night with well timed kicks and punches (I am looking forward to when she arrives and can punch and kick her daddy equally).

Both John and I are turning 30 this year and have planned a trip to Disney to celebrate before our little one arrives. I can't wait to be in the Florida sunshine, but I am a bit nervous about the flights being over 6 months pregnant... Buying into the Disney Vacation Club was one of the best decisions we made early on. This will be the first of many trips our little girl will take, though she won't remember this one and will probably claim she was not there, and while the payments will be done by the time she is seven years old we will still have decades of use ahead of us.

This year is going to fly by, I just hope I can hang on to the good parts!

Wrapping up December...

2012-01-18T10:58:00.000-05:00

and sending the holidays on their way!

The holiday season has had me pretty wiped out this year. I had planned on them taking more out of me than usual, pregnant status and all, but I think I may have underestimated it a bit. I absolutely loved hosting Thanksgiving again and hope to continue to do it every year, but the weeks that followed just flew by. I usually try to get my holiday shopping in before December as much as possible but this year we were only about half done by December 1st. Fortunately, the time frames of parties did give us a chance to spread out the remainder a bit for budgeting purposes though. But, back to the main subjects here - December and the holidays. The month of December itself was pretty packed, but definitely fun. Let's start at the beginning -

The first weekend was Maria & Jason's baby shower :) Kristin, Melissa, and Kristen did a wonderful job! I absolutely loved the location, and of course the creative decorations were almost as lovely as the momma-to-be.

The next weekend we headed up to Frankenmouth with Joe & Stacie for shopping, holiday sight seeing, and a delicious dinner. This was John's first trip and we had a wonderful time!

Then I stopped by parent's house before the holidays to take some pictures before my dad's work party, these are a couple of my favorites:

Then came Christmas...

Christmas morning at home: John and baby-girl-to-be got Nerf guns in their stockings, and Riley *loves* his new sock monkey toy.

And then we had brunch with my sister's family (PJ & Todd with Nate, Zach, and Sebastian), her in-laws (Maureen, Jeremy, & Chelsea), and my parents.

The next weekend we had the Willoughby Family on Friday night:

And the Cassidy Family on Saturday afternoon (New Year's Eve Day), after which we went to the Mungioli's house for dinner and sadly had to leave before midnight (one of these days I'll be capable of staying up late again...)

And last, but certainly not least, the Hallisy Family Christmas came around the first weekend in January.

Whew. If you made it this far, you are truly amazing and I appreciate your patience. I hope that you and yours had as joyful a holiday season as we did! And I wish you every happiness in the year to come. Take care.

Why, hello 2012. Now that you mention it...

2012-01-02T09:38:00.002-05:00

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"I've made a resolution not to destroy my ego or self-esteem by declaring any New Year's resolutions. I usually break them within a week, so I decided to give up on them" - Frank Sheridan, Irish Consul
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Grow baby, grow...

2011-12-29T13:47:00.001-05:00

Ok, so for a general update from pregnancy land. Our little one is getting bigger every day, and according to the doctors and techs she is doing well. Highlight of this month: baby girl is now moving like a champ in there! And this has resulted in many mixed reactions.

1st time I felt her and realized what it was:
"ok, that was weird, and kind of unnerving"

As I got used to it:
"this is kind of cool, at least I can tell she is ok"

A week later:
"this is so exciting!"

John's first time feeling her move:
J: "uh, that is creepy"
Me: "but isn't it exciting?"
J: "yeah... but it is still creepy"

Now that she is keeping me from falling asleep with dance parties at bed time:
"why can't she just go to sleep?! if she would just relax for 20 min..."

And on the rare day when I don't feel her noticeably at any point:
Me: "why is she not moving?! is something wrong?"
J: "I thought you wanted her to let you sleep?"
Me: "yes, but if she could just move a little I'd feel better"
and as the dance party commences in the middle of the night and wakes me up...
Me: "why can't I sleep? I just want to make it through the night"
J: "sigh" (thinks to himself "me too")

Seasonal Affective Disorder Awareness Month

2011-12-07T08:10:00.000-05:00

(Not a medical article, a counseling perspective for reference purposes only. Always consult a physician if you have concerns about potential symptoms or treatment options)

With the daylight getting shorter, the cold setting in, and the increase in physical illnesses in the general population it is not surprising that December is National Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) Awareness Month. While the clinical diagnosis involves identifiable changes in levels of melatonin, a hormone thats production is effected by light and dark cycles, there are many people that exhibit less severe symptoms that often go undiagnosed. Adults and children are both susceptible to the impact of these changes, it has also been observed other species including common household pets such as cats, dogs, and birds (though their symptoms may vary and include things like shedding/molting more frequently, decreased responsiveness to family, and reduced appetite)

Lack of diagnosis is not always a bad thing. If the person is aware that their mood changes or they have other related symptoms (increased fatigue, anxiety, social withdrawal, oversleeping, weight gain, difficulty concentrating, etc) and are making lifestyle adjustments to counteract the effects then there is little reason for concern. The problem arises when the symptoms are not addressed, intentionally or otherwise. Always seek a consultation with an appropriately specialized physician or therapist if you have concerns about potential diagnosis or an increase in symptoms.

There are simple things that people can do to counteract the symptoms: light therapy (use of 'natural light' or full spectrum light bulbs), increasing exercise or general physical activity, eating a more balanced diet, and getting outdoors even for short periods of time.

Just some thoughts to keep in mind to keep this time of year in good spirits.

This entry is linked to the Mayo Clinic site for SAD for reference, and below are a couple additional resources.
National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) - Seasonal Affective Disorder
Mental Health America (MHA) - Seasonal Affective Disorder

Giving Thanks (4)

2011-11-30T08:35:00.000-05:00

To keep in mind, during the rush of the season, all those things that mean so much - I'll be trying to spend a post each week reflecting on those things for which I am thankful. I will try to have each day of the month as it's own entry in a post.

22. Faith. Things get better every year, and when there are struggles it helps so much to have that faith to fall back on. Faith in spirituality, faith in our love, faith in our strength, faith in the ability for everything to come together in the end. There are many types of faith to hold on to in this world, and they are all more valuable then gold.

23. Family of every kind.
Happy birthday to the best dad-in-law I could have asked for! I hope it was a wonderful day, we missed having you here with us to celebrate.

My Aunt Patty came up to work to pick some stuff up, I love those days. I always walk away from the short visit with a hug, a few laughs, and a smile. What more could you ask for? The little things make all the difference.

Every year, the night before Thanksgiving my mom makes between 10 and 15 apple pies. Since we were kids it was always part of our lives as well, from loving "helping," to whining that we were "stuck" there, to treasuring the nostalgia, it has been a part of our family as we have grown. John does a fantastic job in apple prep and I usually handle topping and spices. This year, after a lengthy absence due to distance and kids, my sister and her family rejoined the group. I can't wait to share this event with out kids. (one of the apple pies is the one on the far right in the picture below)

24. Holidays with the ones you love close, in body and in spirit. I truly loved hosting Thanksgiving again this year!
Everyone brought delicious food to share and I was happy to be able to make the main dishes and a few essentials, somehow sharing good food with family makes the cooking even more fun. It was a great day hanging out, playing with all the nephews, and of course eating. Hope everyone else enjoyed it too!

"I’ve got plenty to be thankful for. I’ve got eyes to see with, ears to hear with, arms to hug with, lips to kiss with, someone to adore. How could anybody ask for more? My needs are small, I buy ‘em all, at the five and ten cent store. Oh, I’ve got plenty to be thankful for." Sung by Bing Crosby, Lyrics by Irving Berlin

25. Starting traditions. Growing up, we would watch Santa Clause The Movie Thanksgiving night while we made out our Christmas wish lists and snuggled down with popcorn. Now, we take the day after Thanksgiving to watch the movie so that we can enjoy it more without falling asleep before the end. I love that my hubby indulges me in this since it wasn't part of his childhood as it was mine.

26. Being able to shop some of the sales on Friday and Saturday without going crazy. I was definitely not capable of all out Black Friday shopping this year, but being tight on money I was very grateful to be able to get out and complete some of our holiday shopping while saving some money.

27. Embracing the festive season. Our Christmas decorating is finally complete, both inside and out. John hung the lights outside on Friday during exceptionally warm weather while Riley "supervised" and I put up the tree and our wreath. Sunday I finished decorating the tree (with John's help placing the angel), decorated the mantle, and dressed up the fireplace with garland and our stockings. Some days, nothing feels better than being snuggled up in the living room with only the Christmas lights to light up the room, the only thing that can make it better is adding a fire in the fireplace as the cold weather hits this week.

28. Finding uses for everything. Making stock from the leftover turkey bones and then using it for "Thanksgiving Leftovers Soup." (Using leftover vegetables, gravy, turkey, stock, and mashed potatoes. Sorry, no cranberries here.) A delicious bowl of the flavors of the season, perfect for a cold wintry day

29. The roof over our head, even if the basement below is flooded from rain. It is so easy to get overwhelmed by problems like this but it helps to remember that we would never have them if we didn't have a home to begin with, and for that I am truly thankful.

30. For the help we received from family and the speedy recovery of our basement. Many thanks to my brother-in-law Todd and his wonderful water pump that freed our basement from 6 inches of water last night. John called the city a couple times and they worked on it on their end too. The furnace was turned back on before midnight and there are only a few puddles remaining right now. Now for my wonderful hubby to check on potentially filing an insurance claim for the damages...

Giving Thanks (3)

2011-11-21T09:06:00.000-05:00

To keep in mind, during the rush of the season, all those things that mean so much - I'll be trying to spend a post each week reflecting on those things for which I am thankful. I will try to have each day of the month as it's own entry in a post.

15. Chiropractor visits. Particularly now during pregnancy, I feel o much better when I my back is re-adjusted.

16. The blanket flowers still blooming in our garden. I can't believe that in the middle of November we still have flowers! It has been a relatively mild Fall, but it is still impressive to have the flowers still active. It just makes me smile.

17. Snow-globe afternoons. I looked outside and for about 15 minutes the world looked like a perfect snow-globe. The best part - all the beauty and non of the snow stuck to the roads! I love happy moments like these.

18. Slurpees. Happiness can easily be found in a Slurpee. You know it's true...

19. My mom's classes in massage therapy. There are a lot of types of massage that I can not have while pregnant, but I am so grateful for what my mom is able to do and she is able to work with me to be more comfortable during the process. My neck, shoulders, and arms always feel so much better after!

20. My pressure cooker and the resulting deliciousness of applesauce. I made pressure cooker applesauce for the first time and it turned out great. The only additional tool I needed was my immersion blender. I was even able to leave the skins on and they blended in, giving me a lot more in the nutrient area as well as saving a lot of time peeling apples. Yum!

21. Monthly cooking classes. So happy to have Chef Bub back from his hip surgery and running classes again at Filippa's Wine Barrel. I love our monthly cooking classes, they are such a great escape from the everyday routine.

Giving Thanks (2)

2011-11-14T10:45:00.000-05:00

To keep in mind, during the rush of the season, all those things that mean so much - I'll be trying to spend a post each week reflecting on those things for which I am thankful. I will try to have each day of the month as it's own entry in a post.

8. Being able to exercise my right to vote, and having truly worthy candidates like my friend Kelly to vote for in local elections. With all of the community outreach she does and how much she truly cares about the welfare of our city and its citizens, no one is better suited to city council than her. Congrats Kelly on winning your first term in office!

"We've got the right, to vote our leaders in

Yeah, and we've got the right, to vote them out again

And we're all free, to speak our mind, and not get locked away

Welcome, to the U.S.A. today"

9. Hearing our little squishy's heart beat. Some days I still can not believe that this is happening, that we are really expecting our first child this May. Being able to hear their heart beat for the first time this week was simply amazing.

10. The extra lengths my hubby goes to these days to make life easier for us. He makes sure I go to bed early, despite nightly stubbornness on my part, so that I am getting enough sleep. He makes dinner most nights still right now because I am too tired to do much after work. He even took the rest of yesterday off after my doctor appointment to get the upstairs ready for the kids to occupy on Thanksgiving. I am so lucky to have such a patient and loving husband.

11. Our Veterans. Family, friends, and many others. We should do more than sing the praises of the bravery that our veterans have embodied in the past. We should take this opportunity to re-evaluate how we are treating our veterans in the present. Let us remember the service of our veterans, and renew our national promise to fulfill our sacred obligations to our veterans and their families who have sacrificed so much that we may live free.

12. Excedrin pain medicine without aspirin. This was day 3 of one of the worst migraines I have ever experienced. I would not have made it from the bed to the couch to a short, but great, dinner at my brother-in-laws house without this medicine.

13. Herbology. My mom is going to school for massage therapy and alternative healing arts. On Sunday, she came by after class with a topical herb blend that she learned about in class to help my migraine, which was on day 4. I am so very grateful that it worked well enough to allow me to get a good night's sleep and wake up Monday mostly migraine free.

14. Our dog Riley. He tried so hard all weekend to comfort me and be there for me during my migraine. It broke my heart when I had to send him away due to the pain. But he sat close by, even when he couldn't touch me, and checked on me periodically. Our pets are such a special part of our families, I feel truly blessed to have such a special one as a part of ours.

Giving Thanks

2011-11-07T09:32:00.001-05:00

To keep in mind, during the rush of the season, all those things that mean so much - I'll be trying to spend a post each week reflecting on those things for which I am thankful. I will try to have each day of the month as it's own entry in a post.

1. Family visits. This past weekend my mom- & dad- in-law came into town. We got together on Saturday for our nephew Bryce's soccer game and his birthday party. Then on Sunday we all went out to our nephew Blake's soccer game before they left. It is wonderful to have the opportunity to spend time with family, particularly when they live so far away.

2. Decreasing first trimester pregnancy symptoms, going a week and a half without nausea! Need I say more?

3. Small successes. I know it may sound insignificant to you, but even just pulling together information that my pregnant brain decided wasn't worthy of brain space is a win for me these days. It's amazing how something like that can brighten your entire day.

4. My mom. For everything she has done for me, and continues to do. For doing her best at every point, even when she was the one that suffered the most. For showing me that family is the most important thing of all. I am truly thankful. Happy birthday mom!

5. Downtime with friends. Today I spent the afternoon with Gail, her adorable twin newborn girls, and her mother-in-law (Sharon). It is a blessing to have good friends that you can just hang out with. And the baby snuggles were pretty awesome too!

6. Relaxing Sundays. A day filled with church, lunch out, a stop at Coldstone Creamery, and a relaxing afternoon with the hubby just enjoying each others company. Sundays just may be the perfect days.

7. The relaxation I get from baking. I never would have thought, even 5 years ago, that I would be saying something like this. Cooking was far more plausible in general then baking ever was, but here we are! My hubby stocked me up on Friday with all the supplies I needed before he went to hang out with his friends and as a result I made a buttermilk bundt cake, butterscotch blonde brownies, and sugar cookies this weekend (spread out over 3 days due to energy drain). It felt great, and they taste delicious!

Happy Halloween

2011-10-31T08:26:00.001-04:00

Four years ago today we closed on our house. After signing my life away, and killing a forest with all the paperwork, I sat in the empty living room and played the song "Haunted House" - see lyrics below. Then I carved pumpkins while sitting on the ground on the front porch and prepared to hand out candy while I waited for John to get out of work. I met several of the neighborhood kids and a couple neighbors while hanging out on our first day, even though it would take almost a month before we moved in due to renovations we wanted to do. It was the start of many happy Halloweens to come. I hope everyone has a happy and safe holiday!

Haunted House

I just moved in my new house today
Movin' was hot but I got squared away
Bells started ringin' and chains rattled loud
I knew I'd moved in a haunted house

Still I made up in my mind to stay
Nothin' was a gonna drive me away
When I seen somethin' that gave me the creep
Had a one big eye and two big feet

I stood right still and I did the freeze
And he did the stroll right up to me
Made a sound with his feet like a drum
Sayin', "You'll be here when the mornin' comes?"

Say yes I'll be here when the mornin' comes
I'll be right here and I ain't gonna run
I bought this house now you know I'm boss
Ain't no haint gonna run me off

In the kitchen my stove was a blazin' hot
The coffee was a boilin' in the pot
The grease had melted in my pan
I had a hunk of meat in my hand

From out of space there sat a man
On a hot stove was pots and pans
"Say, that's hot!" I began to shout
He drank a hot coffee right from the spout

He ate the raw meat right from my hand
Drank the hot grease from the fryin' pan
He said to me, "Now you better run,
And don't be here when the mornin' comes"

Say yes I'll be here when the mornin' comes
I'll be right here and I ain't gonna run
I bought this house now you know I'm boss.

My favorite season of all...

2011-10-27T09:24:00.000-04:00

For the first time in about 3 years, we finally have experienced a true Fall in Michigan this year! I absolutely love the Fall colors, weather, and smells. It is by far my favorite season and even though it has been rainy this year, I have enjoyed every minute of it. I wish it would have rained less and that I would have felt up to doing more - like going out and photographing the amazing colors - unfortunately as it turns out pregnancy uses up a lot of your energy, but we can't have everything and right now I am just truly grateful for the season.

Some of my favorite things that we have been able to experience over the past 3-4 weeks of this beautiful Fall season:

Trips out to the orchard for apples and cider (even though I have to heat it to simmering before I can drink it right now)
The beautiful tree lined expressway I take to work that has been so lovely since the warm colors have arrived
A variety of squashes that have flooded our farmers' market
The sound of that crunchy leaf I went out of my way to step on
The fact that my car can be camouflaged against one of the trees in the parking lot at work when it turns a beautiful copper/orange color
Blustery days
Light sweaters
Fires in the fireplace at home and sitting beside it in my recliner with Riley
And oh so many more things that just scream Fall to me...

I hope that the season is going well for you, even if you are more saddened than I am to see the warm weather go. Take care.

Losing track, but gaining so much more

2011-10-19T11:07:00.002-04:00

So, lately I have been absent minded and far more neglectful than I have ever been with my blog. Fortunately there is a reason for that - I am pregnant! What is happening to me seems to be somewhat jokingly referred to as "pregnancy brain" and the results are a sincere lack of short term memory capabilities and an even smaller attention span than normal. But, with all the chaos that my body and mind are collapsing into, we are getting so much more - our first child. Nothing can compare with that gift. If I have to feel lost in myself and confused for 40 weeks, it is a small price to pay for what will come at the end. And I keep telling myself that every day in hopes of making my mind remember what all of this is for. So if you are talking to me and I break down in tears or start flipping out, please be patient and know that I really am trying, but hormones can be real jerks sometimes.

Some insight into how things are going so far...

My pregnancy state of mind: I feel like crap, when will I ever feel better?
When I feel almost completely better: oh crap, is something wrong?!
When I eat something I know will upset my system right now: was it worth it? because this isn't going away until tomorrow. I hope you are happy.
When about half the symptoms are better: Ok, I can do this, it's not so bad.
When they all come flooding back: WTF?!
...It's about a week long cycle, depending on how long each period lasts...

The first ultrasound was really vague and for the heartbeat, we could see it but not hear it. Beware, pregnant moms-to-be, this one is rather invasive - but definitely worth it. I will not post it, but for your reference, it looks rather like a blob.

The second ultrasound was done after my exam last week, my doctor was trying to make me feel better after the less than pleasant experience of getting cultures. If you look on the right hand side, by the little arow on the side, you can see the baby's head and body. You can also see the little hands just left of the head. I think it looks like it is waving with both hands and saying "hi!" John thinks it is pressing its face "up against the glass" and yelling "let me out!" I'm sticking with my interpretation.

So, that is where I am right now. I am not cooking much, due to food and smell aversions, but I am trying to keep up my cooking blog with recipes I had come up with before. My hubby has been a master of making bacon grilled cheese sandwiches, mac and cheese, and rice since that is most of what I can eat right now. My options have expanded slightly over the past week but unfortunately still no meat other than bacon and no pop (carbonation isn't doing well with my stomach). But I do have good days sometimes so I am seeing a light in the distance. I truly hope that it comes to end after the first trimester as everyone keeps assuring me it should. I'm at 11 weeks, there can't be too many more like this to go!

September Highlights

2011-09-30T08:40:00.002-04:00

Well, I think this is my worst showing yet since I started my blog - and for that I am deeply apologetic. It is easy to say that we have been busy, we are pretty much always busy, but that is only part of the reason for the lack of sharing. The long and short of it is that I have just not been feeling up to par this month. But, all things aside, we have actually been doing a good amount that has kept us occupied.

On Labor Day we went out to Romeo for the Peach Festival Children's Parade with my immediate family and some of my dad's family. We had a great time and my sister's youngest, Sebastian, even made it through about half of it before getting too fussy. We enjoyed cider and donuts from the orchards, went out to breakfast after, and then hung out at my sister's new house. I brought an ice cream cake for my dad's birthday and I made a banana cake with almond butter cream frosting for my sister for hers since it was coming up soon too. It was a great day filled with family and fun!

On September 16th we headed out to Lansing to our friends Jessy & Jason's wedding. It was a lovely ceremony, Jessy was as always beautiful, we had a great time at the reception and Sparty even stopped by! The only downside was having to leave earlier than usual due to the long drive home. Congratulations Jessy & Jason!

Last weekend I made and canned applesauce from some "seconds" I picked up from the orchard. I love applesauce, but the store-bought stuff just doesn't cut it once you have made your own. So after having some set aside for the week and a little extra to use in my homemade poptarts, I came out with 6 quart sized jars. Not too bad! And for future reference - a bushel is a lot of apples. I only used half and it filled my largest stockpot. Just something to keep in mind.... I also did some freezer meal prepping, I now have 3 new meals in the freezer. It was supposed to be 5 but we used some of the chicken for chicken pot pie on Sunday and after canning and the rest of the preparations I just ran out of energy before making the individual lasagnas. So instead we now have 4 containers of meat sauce in the freezer, so I guess those each count as partial meals as well.

Somewhere in there we also had dinner with Joe and Stacie a couple times, which was fun as always! And a lunch with my sister and her boys. I'm sure there was more, but honestly I can't seem to keep it all in my mind. It has been a wonderful month and I hope that yours has been the same! Take care.

August Garden Report

2011-09-07T09:59:00.000-04:00

Well I really did intend to post this last week, but when the temperatures skyrocketed into the mid to upper 90's again just the thought of being outside in the gardens made me overheat. Now that the temperatures are back where they should be for the start of September I can wrap my head around the idea again, and hopefully get out there and do some garden clean up this weekend!

Bushes - my hubby helped me with some essential pruning, since the offending branches were out of my reach. The butterfly bush has been beautifully vibrant all month and the it has attracted some truly lovely butterflies to the flower bed. The magnolia bush is budding and growing as long as I keep the enthusiasm of the butterfly bush at bay. And the rose bush, of course, is still gorgeous and in at least partial bloom throughout the Summer.

Herbs - while the parsley has largely been tamed, the oregano and chives are still quite enthusiastic. The basil and rosemary in the containers are doing wonderfully, and the renegade dill has surpassed all expectations!

Flowers - the blanket flowers continue to bloom and fill the garden bed, as well as decorate my desk, but I do owe them some love in the way of "dead-heading" the past blooms. The cone flowers are lovely as well and the tickseed is going strong.

Vegetables - there is definitely a steady crop of vegetables in my little 4 ft x 4 ft garden bed! Square foot gardening really is amazing! I have had a regular supply of green beans (bush beans), cucumbers, bell peppers, min chocolate bell peppers, tomatoes, and banana peppers. I expect the leeks to be harvest-able this coming month!

And there it is folks - the August Garden Report! I, for one, am thrilled to have the cooler temperatures return this week. They aren't cold enough to damage my plants, just a bit cooler so i can really enjoy being outdoors! I hope that the Summer has been treating you well and that you are looking forward to the Fall as much as we are here at the Hallisy Homestead. Take care...

Last month's adventure...

2011-08-30T11:12:00.000-04:00

being posted today so that it can still be "last month," a bit sad I know but it makes me feel better about being this late with it...

At the end of last month me and my hubby took a long weekend and went to visit family in Chicago. We were fortunate enough to have been able to schedule the same weekend as his brother and his family so we had quite the group! We drove down on Thursday night, well John drove and I mostly slept, and stayed with my mom- & dad- (in-law). It was great to have two full days to spend there before driving back Sunday afternoon. Here's a quick overview of how the time went, passing much too quickly:

Friday we went to Legoland, which was an absolute blast for all of us (the young and the young at heart). Then in evening we hung out with some of the extended family for dinner and beyond. It was great to be able to see everyone!

Saturday we went to the Museum of Science and Industry. It was my first time and I think I loved it as much as the kids did! It was wonderful to see the pairing of history alongside scientific developments, the left side of my brain was in heaven. I think I could spend another whole day there just wandering around... Unfortunately we were just too worn out to head over to Navy Pier, I still haven't been there yet, so hopefully we will find some time on our next trip.

It was wonderful to have a "mini-vacation" just enjoying time with our family. I hope that Summer is treating you well, look for a new Garden Report later this week...

The Eye of the Storm

2011-08-26T13:47:00.000-04:00

or how minor less-than-chaotic events can lead to the potential for mass destruction. That may be a bit over dramatic, but you get the idea. It's time to center myself and brace for the next wind, whether it is the worst or the best.

Some days it seems as if there isn't too terribly much going on, then I wake up. We have had so many joyful events this Summer: our nephew Zachary's birthday, John spent a weekend in Chicago hanging out with friends, I had a friend's bachelorette party to go to, another friend's baby shower was last weekend, we've been helping my sister out by watching the boys or doing some painting at the new house they will be renting, and this weekend we are helping them move (just to name a few). I'll have a separate post coming up highlighting our most recent trip to Chicago at the end of last month to visit John's family...

I've also been busy with regulatory auditors at work, helping gather information for a grant for the Warren Community Gardens, and endless specialist appointments for various health conditions that thought it would be fun to be problematic all in a row. My husband has truly been my saving grace through it all. It's hard not to break down when you periodically feel as if you must be physically falling apart, but thankfully my ways of relaxing have been helpful (even if I am not feeling well enough to benefit from gardening) and John is the best support that I could have.

Now, it seems, that things are coming together. One by one they are falling into place. Maybe, if I hold really really still, the rest will follow suit. It's worth a shot right?

One thing I can honestly say is this - through the ups and the downs - I am truly happy underneath it all. I never knew my life could be like this. It has its trials and tribulations as it must, but the joyful times are overwhelming and are the glue that holds it all together. Right now I am feeling - physically tired, mentally drained, lost for thought more often than not, but every step of the way above it all I feel blessed.

July Garden Report

2011-08-12T10:29:00.000-04:00

and I am behind again... This Summer is just flying by! I have so much to share, you just may get inundated with posts over the next week or so while I play catch-up. Or I may get too busy and slack again, you never can tell. But I'll try to stay positive on this one.

The heat wave took its toll on my gardens this Summer. Two weeks with temperatures hovering around 100 F before the Heat Index wasn't very helpful, but the continued weeks of 90 F days really just made everything struggle even more. Brown grass as far as the eye could see in our neighborhood, and it was all I could do just to keep the plants alive let alone flourishing.

Bushes - they could use some love... I need to get out there and do some pruning, but they made it through the heat wave wonderfully! My wonderful hubby helped me with the renovation on the remaining section of the garden by pulling out a half-dead bush we had there. Then with some landscape fabric and mulch, it really started to come together! Now my magnolia bush will have some more room to grow, and I may plant some lavendar there next year. The Butterfly Bush has started to bloom in July and should be filled with flowers and butterflies in no time.

Herbs - well, with the flat leaf parsley invasion was brought to end with the renovations mentioned above. One plant did survive under the shelter of the chives, but their revolution has been effectively squashed. The rest of the herbs are doing wonderfully, even the dill that has persistently grown where it reseeded itself amidst the vegetables in my raised planter. So far I have used everything except the dill in one dish or another but I intend to rectify that this weekend with carrot soup. Hopefully int he next few weeks herb jelly will be in process too!

Flowers - looking beautiful as always. The roses continue to bloom, as do the blanket flowers and cone flowers. The tickseed bloomed this month and adds a lovely yellow hue to the garden. Looking forward to the plants continuing to grow and fill the beds with beauty.

Vegetables - made this season's debut harvest this month! A few banana peppers and a handful of green beans. There are so many more on their way, I can't wait for the bounty to come in. I see more home canning in my future...

And there you have it: The July Garden Report! I hope that Summer is treating you well, that you have escaped the treacherous heat as we finally have, and that your gardens are bringing you joy as the season progresses. Take care

Greetings from our garden frog, who is in the midst of its third blooming cycle this season! Mad props go out to that particular potted plant's resilience.

Books: The Ale Boy's Feast

2011-07-14T10:30:00.002-04:00

There is a website by Water Brook Multnomah Publishing that started a program called "Blogging for Books." I am posting my review there as well, I received this book as a part of the program. I highly suggest checking out the site. It's a great opportunity for bloggers to get free books and to generate honest feedback on them.

The Ale Boy's Feast
by Jeffrey Overstreet

I must confess, this series by Overstreet has had me captivated since the first book, Auralia's Colors, back in 2007. I had long been looking for a modern author who not only captivated the mind but the imagination as well. I can confidently say that I have found that in Overstreet's work. The series is an enticing escape from every day life and picking up this book was like going back to an old friend. I could not relate to all of the characters in this text, but I can not relate to all the characters in every day life either so I see this fact in itself drawing me more into the world that he has created. The character traits of the heroes as well as the villains are grounded just enough in reality to pull me in, and the beauty of the world they exist in (even when it is falling apart) keeps me there. The only glaring fault I find in this book was that it forced me to say goodbye to some dear friends as the series came to an end.

On a more technical point, this text is not laden with conversation between characters. It is driven by event s, interactions, and individual revelations. It is full of imagery and is no less than a feast for the
imagination. As much as I thrive in that particular area of my mind, it is no doubt that I was drawn even deeper into this world with every page that I read.

I am not sure how "happy" I can say that I am with the way that different threads resolved in this final book, but I can definitely say that I appreciate where he went with it and the skill with which certain story lines were resolved (either through the events of others or left, to a degree, to the reader for contemplation). And to b e honest, I'm not sure I would have enjoyed the book as much if I was truly "happy" with the conclusion. The pattern of events through the excitement of discovery, trauma of battle, joy in celebration, and the sense of peace with which it closes left me feeling so much more then satisfied - but at peace with everything myself.

There are many themes weaving in and out through the series and it is hard to pinpoint one as the "primary message." What I personally felt most touched by was a clear visual of where things can go when all that is beautiful in a world, be it through the art of the people or that of nature, is sacrificed for individual gain of physical, monetary, and political power. An amount of control must be let go before you can realize your own potential and personal strength, and it may not be exactly what you expected to find but it is beautiful in itself none the less.

It is in all respects the end of a series and I highly recommend reading the three previous books before picking this one up and diving in. I highly recommend reading the first books on their own merit, but as a series I found this to be an even more impactful work. I hesitate to put details as to the specific events of the books because, at least for me, the personal interpretation of each one played a lot into which threads were most engaging and what I ultimately walked away from it with at the end. What I can say is that it combines enough battles to keep things at a fast pace, enough relationships to build a sense of belonging, and enough discovery to keep you wanting more.

Evan

2011-07-12T09:31:00.001-04:00

"Dogs have a way of finding the people who need them, Filling an emptiness we don't even know we have."

(Thom Jones)

During the few months that I had returned home to stay with my parents after returning to Michigan what seems like an eternity ago, they adopted 2 dogs from a rescue shelter - a miniature apricot Poodle and little white Pomeranian They had come from the same home and when I inquired about the Poodle for my parents they said they would like to keep them together. After a short meeting, the energetic little Pomeranian won my dad over and they were soon on their way home. They named them Evan (Poodle) and Ellie (Pomeranian). Evan's temperament was wonderfully even toned, he loved to snuggle and showed affection constantly while hanging out with you no matter what you were doing. Ellie was the opposite, an energetic little ball of fluff with a diva attitude that no other could match. They complimented each other wonderfully and fit my parents to a tee. They were decidedly not pleased when I moved into my apartment a month or so later, and reminded me of that after every trip to my parents' house to this day. Somehow that initial bond we had in the process of their time at the rescue shelter, bringing them home to my parents and sharing those first few weeks together has never faded and their affection never waned.

Ellie on the couch with our dog Riley while Evan sleeps on the floor during their last visit to our house.

With all the joy that those dogs have brought into the lives of our family, my heart is sad today. One of my parents' beloved dogs - Evan - had been ill since this past Winter. His health had improved from the initial state and he was able to be energetic and playful to a degree for some time this Spring and early Summer. Sadly, his condition became worse over this past weekend and his precious life came to an end yesterday. He will always have a place in our hearts and in our memories until we meet again.

The Rainbow Bridge

inspired by a Norse legend

By the edge of a woods, at the foot of a hill,

Is a lush, green meadow where time stands still.

Where the friends of man and woman do run,

When their time on earth is over and done.

For here, between this world and the next,

Is a place where each beloved creature finds rest.

On this golden land, they wait and they play,

Till the Rainbow Bridge they cross over one day.

No more do they suffer, in pain or in sadness,

For here they are whole, their lives filled with gladness.

Their limbs are restored, their health renewed,

Their bodies have healed, with strength imbued.

They romp through the grass, without even a care,

Until one day they start, and sniff at the air.

All ears prick forward, eyes dart front and back,

Then all of a sudden, one breaks from the pack.

For just at that instant, their eyes have met;

Together again, both person and pet.

So they run to each other, these friends from long past,

The time of their parting is over at last.

The sadness they felt while they were apart,

Has turned into joy once more in each heart.

They embrace with a love that will last forever,

And then, side-by-side, they cross over… together.

June Garden Report

2011-07-01T09:37:00.002-04:00

The wet season continued a bit this month, and with our weekends packed to the brim with activities it has not helped the state of the gardens. But, all in all, there has still been a lot of progress (not as much as I'd like, but it's never as much as I'd like). I was hoping to post this earlier this week, but health problems prevented me from doing much of anything. Hopefully they clear up soon, I'm getting restless to get back out in my gardens!

Bushes - The bushes finished with their blooming season and have continued to fill in on the left side really well. I reshaped the evergreen bushes, much to a visiting squirrel's dismay (his perch became decidedly less cushy).

I also weeded some on the left side that hosts the majority of the bushes and put down a layer of fresh mulch, it needs another bag or two but it's looking good!

Herbs - Still going strong! I've used some of the parsley (flat leaf), chives, oregano, and rosemary so far. The basil is starting its growth spurt so that will be usable soon as well. It's wonderful being able to pick fresh herbs from the garden to use when cooking. I also happily found some dill that re-seeded itself in my self watering garden bed this past week and after a bit of nurturing it is doing remarkably well among the vegetables. Parsley is still on the attack, but it has slowed its pace a bit at least for now.

Flowers - I weeded, put down landscape fabric, and mulched the majority of the perennial flower bed this month. I collapsed and couldn't move the rest of the day after that, but it was worth it! I need to expand some of the space around the blanket flowers, a few cuts in the underlying fabric should give them some more air and freedom to move.

It looks so much cleaner over there, and it really keeps the amount of maintenance needed to a minimum compared to the hours I had to spend in it weekly before. I made it all the way to the butterfly bush and still have to do the section by the bushes on the right and the herb garden. The roses were in full bloom most of the month, and they are so vibrant it always amazes me. The cone flowers started opening but are not in full bloom yet.

Vegetables - after a few incidents where a rather difficult squirrel kept diggin up my plants, I put some all natural deterrent down and the vegetables are now thriving. My tomato planter is doing great, as long as I remember to water it, and my peppers are looking fantastic. Only one celery plant survived the squirrel's massacre, but that one is doing well enough. The leeks are growing well, as are the bush beans and the two cucumber plants that survived the invasion. Now that things have calmed down, they all seem to be growing as they should. I can't wait for my first harvest! I know it is a ways off still, but I can't help but be excited...

I am still dreaming of re-grading the back of the house and planting squash, but with my hubby's unexpected car problems our finances were directed elsewhere. Maybe by the end of the season we can at least have it graded and then next year I'll get my squash planted, we'll have to see how it goes. I hope that your gardens are blossoming and bringing you joy this Summer as well! Take care.

Father's Day

2011-06-19T06:54:00.000-04:00

To my dad, my dad (in-law), my uncles, my brothers (in-law), and all my family and friends that are dads or dads-to-be ... Happy Father's Day!

Fatherhood is pretending the present you love most is soap-on-a-rope. ~Bill Cosby

He didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it. ~Clarence Budington Kelland

Old as she was, she still missed her daddy sometimes. ~Gloria Naylor

In Memory...

2011-06-14T07:20:00.000-04:00

Today is the funeral for my uncle (my aunt's ex-husband, my cousins Mike & Theresa's dad). Please keep his family in your thoughts and prayers.

"Miss me, but let me go"

When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me
I want no rites in a gloom filled room
Why cry for a soul set free

Miss me a little - but not too long
And not with your head bowed low
Remember the love that we once shared
Miss me - but let me go

For this is a journey that we must all take
And each must go alone
It's all a part of the Master's plan
A step on the road to home

When you are lonely, and sick of heart
Go to the friends you know
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds
Miss me - but let me go

Easter Bowl: a review in pictures

2011-06-13T09:59:00.000-04:00

I know, Easter was quite some time ago now, but our annual Hallisy Family Easter Bowl was delayed due to work schedules and travel conflicts. That being said, this post is still 2 weeks late. Sorry.

We had everyone over at our house early in the day for a BBQ and to hang out, we took the kids down to the park to play.

Once my mom (in-law) and dad (in-law) arrived from Chicago, we headed out to the bowling alley.

After bowling, we had a great dinner and spent some time just hanging out with family.

May Garden Report

2011-05-31T12:18:00.000-04:00

So far it has certainly been a wet season out there, some growth has been stunted and a few plants were decimated, but overall things are looking up...

Bushes - the lilacs in the front bloomed for the first time this year! The lilacs and our other flowering bushes are filling in very nicely in the left-front garden. I did some weeding over there this weekend and it seems to be holding up well. I still need to reshape the other 2 "evergreen" bushes on that side and put down another layer of mulch, but otherwise it is coming along nicely. On the other side, the butterfly bush is looking great and so is the matching flowering bush in the far corner. The magnolia bush was beautiful when it bloomed, I can't wait for it to grow and fill in that area even more!

Herbs - the flat leaf (Italian) parsley is still thriving, and expanding throughout the garden. The chives are already creating their "bush" formation and are blooming, The oregano is happily inhabiting the area beneath one of the flowering bushes. I have added basil and rosemary in a couple large pots since the "herb garden" in the main flower bed is already so full, I hope to find a space in there to at least transplant the rosemary so I can add some dill to the large pots next weekend. It creates such a great aroma to have so many fresh herbs growing on that side of the house, and a few of the ones that are growing with exceptional enthusiasm are just about ready to start "harvesting" for daily use!

Flowers - right now 7 of the 8 perennials that were introduced to the garden last year have made their presence known, and 3 are already flowering! I think that one casualty of the Winter isn't too bad as far as things go. We went to Eastern Market for Flower Day weekend and I picked up 2 more blanket flower plants that were then added to the list of perennials in the main garden, along with the vegetable plants to be highlighted in the next section. Sadly the bell flowers took a pretty hard hit during our last series of storms and I lost about half of one of the plants, I'm hoping that it continues to grow and still gives us its beautiful flowers this Summer despite the loss. One of the blanket flower plants from last year was stunted in growth under some tall grass since we had such constant rain for a while that I couldn't get out there to give it some space. It seems to be recovering but it will take some time for it to catch up with its partner plant that is thriving. Overall, it seems that sunshine and warmer weather have really turned things around for this area of the gardens.

Vegetables - making their debut this month - have had a troubled start. The cold weather that we had for about a week took its toll on the two tomato plants, they seem to have survived but are slow in growth for the time being. During the recent storm that claimed the bell flower plant listed above, one mound of pickling cucumber plants was completely decimated, there were fragments of the plants scattered around the mound where they once stood. The other mound did survive, though it took some damage in its own right. Also planted so far this year are leeks, bell peppers, and banana peppers. I hope to get some asparagus started this year and maybe another vegetable or two.

I'd love to re-grade the back of the house if I can figure out how to do it and come up with the financial support for the project, if I do manage to get that done I hope to plant some squash varieties in that area. In the meantime, there are some very enthusiastic hostas residing in that area.

There always seems to be more to do with the upkeep, development, and general landscaping but taking it one step at a time certainly makes it more manageable in the long run. I hope that your gardens, whether they be containers or large beds, are bringing you joy as the weather becomes warmer. I'm certainly looking forward to drier days to come so I can spend a little more time in mine. Take care.

Happy Memorial Day

2011-05-30T12:56:00.000-04:00

We come, not to mourn our dead soldiers, but to praise them.
- Francis A. Walker

As we celebrate today with family and friends, let us not forget those we have to thank for our freedom. Those who gave of themselves in life, health, and love. The ones on the front line, the ones behind the scenes, and the ones at home caring for the families of those standing strong for our country and our lives. Today we express the gratitude we that you deserve every day for all that you have sacrificed and continue to sacrifice in name of God and Country. Most sincere thanks, today and always.

Four things support the world: the learning of the wise, the justice of the great, the prayers of the good, and the valor of the brave. - Muhammad

Two years ago today...

2011-05-23T08:34:00.000-04:00

I married my best friend, the one I laugh with, dream with, and love..

To My Love - I can't think of a more perfect life then to grow old with you, thank you for being everything I could ever need and more. I love you madly ♥

We went to Piccirilli's Restaurante, where John proposed, for dinner on Sunday since they are closed on Mondays. We also went to Sweet Dreams Bakery in Madison Heights to pick up some of the same mini cakes we had for our reception.

Today we are both off of work so that we can spend the day together, just enjoying being us.

The four years we have been together have been the most joyous of my life, and the past two years that we have been married has only shown that it gets better with each day that comes. No one ever said that it would be easy, and it isn't always, but they said it would be worth it - and it most assuredly is! I never knew how happy I could be until we found each other, I hope that everyone finds this kind of love in their life. Take care.

Wow, I am slacking...

2011-05-20T10:21:00.000-04:00

Seems I have been seriously neglecting my posting duties lately. I am deeply apologetic. I don't know where the time has gone...

At the end of April my brother-in-law was married to a wonderful woman that I am happy to consider not just a good friend but also family:

At the rehearsal, we also celebrated my mother (in-law)'s birthday (jewelry from all the "kids" was designed and made by my mom and myself):

And our nephew's birthday:

Earlier this month, we celebrated Mother's Day at the zoo with my parents and my sister (with her family and her mother-in-law):

I have been hoping for a break in the rain so that I can rescue my garden from the grass that is growing so well this year... The perennials are starting to bloom and are trying to find their way out of the forest of grass. Once the ground has been rediscovered, there will be photo evidence coming soon. I went to Eastern Market for Flower Day weekend with my parents and can't wait to get my new perennials and vegetable plants into the ground!

I have, of course, been cooking as well. Here are a few highlights:

Pan Fried Gnocchi with a Balsamic Reduction (easier to make then it sounds, I promise!)

Pork Rib Marinade (it is grilling season after all)

Grill Friendly Broccoli Packets (because we all need a side or two)

With so many things happening this Summer, taking the time to step back and reflect is truly essential to appreciate all that is going on and all that is to come. Get some fresh air, dodge a rain drop or two, but most of all make sure you enjoy something you do each and every day (in the chaos I too often forget that last step). Until we speak again, take care.

April Garden Report

2011-04-28T10:00:00.000-04:00

So far this Spring....

Bushes - leaves are budding/growing on most of the varieties that we have, the lilac flowers are budding in the front as is the magnolia bush. Overall, very favorable. We did have one casualty over the Winter of a new one planted last Fall, not sure if it is due to the plant or concerns with the location and the neighboring plants, further research into the matter is needed at this time.

Herbs - parsley is thriving already (more accurately, invading), chives are doing great at almost 12 inches tall already, oregano is crawling underneath the other plants in the area, just need to buy and plant some basil, dill, and maybe rosemary this year. They definitely win the award for the most impressive early Spring showing.

Flowers - 4 of the 8 new perennials from last year are already making their presence known through greenery (flower buds have not yet been spotted), the crocus have come and gone, our purple hyacinth are growing like crazy with all this rain and brightening up the garden, the yellow tulips are budding and about to burst, and the lily of the valley are sneaking in even as we speak. Now we are just anxiously awaiting the appearance of the remaining perennials...

We began our lawn treatments this year, we'll see how much it helps. The front has received significantly more attention then the back since it dries up faster after the rain. Weed killer has been applied in many areas, the back behind the house in particular so we can regrade the soil and hopefully plant some squash varieties to hold it down.

Other goals for the Spring include another layer of mulch on the front left garden and starting to lay mulch in areas of the front right garden. I'd like to add a few more perennials to eliminate the need for too many annuals in the larger gardens. Of course, my vegetable garden will be making an appearance, as well as my new hanging tomato planters (with self watering action!). Can you tell I'm looking forward to warmer weather?

The way things are going right now - if April showers bring May flowers, I think Mother Nature owes me a flower garden in our basement. Here's to hoping the water stops coming...

The Ludwig - Hallisy Show

2011-04-20T14:43:00.000-04:00

Ok, so we've been busy. If you put it under a microscope, you can find free time somewhere in the past month or so - at least I think you can... Thankfully, the time has been spent with family and friends and that makes the craziness worth the strain. In short, some key highlights were: baby shower - vacation - nephew birthday - bridal shower - bridal shower - bachelorette party. Right now I think we'll focus on those that are feature segments in The Ludwig Hallisy Show, mainly: vacation - bridal shower - bachelorette party. My brother-in-law and soon-to-be sister-in-law are getting married in a week and a half, and I am just now posting on their progress (such a slacker, I know), but I have to get it out before the wedding at least! So here we go...

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Back in March we went to Walt Disney World and used our Vacation Club points to get a 2-bedroom suite at Saratoga Springs Resort and Spa. It was Stacie, Joe, my hubby, and me for this trip. It was Joe's first time and Stacie's first since she was kid so we had a great time showing off all our favorite things to do at the parks.

We went to Raglan Road, an Irish pub in Downtown Disney, to celebrate a belated St Patrick's Day when we arrived Friday night. As always it was great music, food, and fun! Then we crashed for the night.

Saturday we did EPCOT in the morning during the Flower and Garden Festival, we focused on Future World since we had plans to go back Sunday for the World Showcase pavilions. We stopped by The Land, Imagination, and The Seas for some of our favorite attractions.

After a break at the resort, we headed out to Magic Kingdom for some classic Disney fun. We missed Wishes (the fireworks display) while once again trying to get on the renovated Space Mountain, but due to technical difficulties we missed the ride too. We did, of course, hit up It's A Small World, Pirates of the Caribbean, and Haunted Mansion. We ate at one our favorite restaurants there - Liberty Tree Tavern - and caught the night time highlight that is the Main Street Electrical Parade.

Sunday we had a relaxing morning at the resort. In the afternoon we headed back out to EPCOT to tour the countries. Some of our personal "must sees" are the Norway ride, the lengthy Japanese store, the amazing food at the sit down restaurant at the Italian pavilion (which we experienced for the first time this trip), Soarin', and of course Illuminations - the fire works, laser, water, video display that closes out the night.

Monday we spent the morning at Animal Kingdom with the extra magic hours. We went to the "in the round" stage show of The Lion King (which is always amazing), rode my favorite Disney Mountain - Expedition Everest, went on safari, and had a delicious lunch at Tusker House (another first for us!).

In the afternoon/evening we headed out to Disney's Hollywood Studios. We checked out The Great Movie Ride and the Indiana Jones Stunt Show right away. Later, John was thrilled to be able to see the night time show "Fantasmic!" again, it is the epic battle of good versus evil in the world of Disney and is by far the most awe inspiring closing event at any of the parks. I had injured myself at some point during the day and John was sweet enough to take me back to the resort after the show, turns out it wasn't my ankle OR my knee, it was both (insert expletives here). We were happy that Joe and Stacie decided to stay and close out the park in our absence, and they were able to get to both Tower of Terror and Rockin' Roller Coaster which are usually at the top of our lists to do.

Tuesday we spent some time eating and shopping at Downtown Disney before our flight back to a surprisingly frozen Michigan.

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Next segment in the show - Stacie & Joe's Wedding Shower

My in-laws came in from Chicago to attend the shower, it was great to have them back here with us for a while, and we were able to spend a day visiting as well. On the way to the shower we stopped off at the mall and my mom (in-law) was able to find her dress for the wedding! The shower was lovely! It's always so nice to see family and friends gathering together to celebrate the happy couple.

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And finally, in closing if you made it this far, we have Stacie's Bachelorette Party from last Saturday. It was a great time! We went to her sister's condo for appetizers and gifts, then headed out to Grape Expectations (a wine bar in Plymouth) for the night. The food was delicious, the wine was fantastic, and everyone seemed to have a great time! We hijacked Stacie afterwards and stopped by an Irish bar in the area for another drink and to hang out a little longer before calling it a night. Hopefully Stacie enjoyed the festivities as much as we did!

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And now that the show has come to a close... there will be more updates soon as we conquer "Holy Week" leading up to Easter over here at the Hallisy Homestead. Whatever you celebrate, or don't celebrate, I hope that this is an enjoyable week for you and yours! Take care...

Welcoming Spring

2011-04-11T16:28:00.001-04:00

Me: Hi Spring!!! So nice to see you! How are ya? You're looking lovelier then ever. Please stay....
Spring: Ummm, yeah, we'll see...

Sigh.

So, this last weekend was the first one where we really welcomed in Spring at the Hallisy Homestead. It started out a bit chilly, but warmed up real quick. Here we go -

I made homemade macaroni and cheese for dinner on Friday, which turned out pretty darn good for my first try, a great comfort food on a chilly night.
On Saturday we went out to breakfast before I ran errands and went to my cousin-in-law-to-be's bridal shower and John headed to the other side of town to hang out with friends. The bridal shower was nice, it was great to see the happy couple and family! There was a chill in the air, but you could definitely tell the warmth was coming. In the evening John surprised me with dinner out and a run to Erma's for the best frozen custard around, the perfect way to spend a Saturday night.
Sunday it was church, some errands again, yard work to welcome in Spring, and some cooking - two loaves of bread, a couple dozen sugar cookies, and cream of broccoli soup from a newly modified recipe. It was a beautiful day, despite the foggy start early on.

Here's a quick status update on the Spring in the Hallisy Homestead situation:

The gardens - preen fertilizer and weed preventer was put down a couple weeks ago, this past weekend the focus was on liquid weed killer/preventer as a spot treatment. The flat leaf parsely is happily re-seaded and growing like crazy in the herb garden (and everywhere else), the chives are starting to sprout from their re-seading as well. The crocus look beautiful with their yellow blooms opening up, and I am hoping the tulips are not far behind since they are almost 6 inches tall now! The lilac bushes have leaves budding, they seem to be the front runners in the bush/tree category.

The yard - 1st yard treatment done in the front, backyard still pending. Weed killer/preventer was used to attack all cracks in the sidewalks and driveway. We have grand plans for our back yard landscaping this Summer, hopefully we can afford to realize our dreams in some fashion. Any volunteers to help? We can trade help back and forth on projects and I'll be happy to feed anyone that comes to help at our place...

The house - windows open! The mess inside leaves something to be desired, so please call before stopping by, but the fresh air this past weekend was glorious.

I hope Spring is treating you well, and that you had some nice weather of your own to enjoy last weekend! A picture loaded post coming soon, consider yourself warned. Until we speak again, take care of you and yours.

In like a lion...

2011-03-30T08:59:00.000-04:00

... out like a frozen lamb.

Yep, that is March this year. But, fortunately, my garden does not yet seem phased by it. The tulips are popping up, the crocus are blooming, and the flat leaf parsley has not only re-seeded in the garden - but apparently also in the driveway and the garden bricks. As happy as I am to see this very energetic return from the parsley, I believe that it may have already officially crossed the line into "weed-dom" this year. It actually hurts me to treat my beloved herbs as weeds, but the driveway has all the seasoning it needs right now so it is time to take action. Sad, but true. Now if I can only get the neighbor's black cat out of the rest of the flower bed I'll be all set for Spring! Should it ever decide to come...

Happy Saint Patrick's Day

2011-03-17T06:37:00.000-04:00

One day out of the year the majority of this country celebrates a culture I hold dear regardless of season. I am proud to have Irish in my blood! I am making the American traditional meal in celebration of the day corned beef (with boiled potatoes in place of cabbage), I had considered making Shepard's Pie or Irish Bacon (salt pork) and Potatoes but with our schedule this year it just doesn't seem to fit. I will be blasting my Irish drinking songs and ballads all day, so consider yourself warned.

In honor of this day in which the patron Saint Patrick of Ireland is celebrated I offer the following -

One of my favorite blessings <3
“May God grant you always...A sunbeam to warm you, a moonbeam to charm you, a sheltering Angel so nothing can harm you. Laughter to cheer you. Faithful friends near you. And whenever you pray, Heaven to hear you.”

One of my favorite sayings:
May those that love us, love us.
And those that don't love us,
May God turn their hearts.
And if He doesn't turn their hearts,
May he turn their ankles so we will know them by their limping.

One of my favorite Irish drinking songs:
Whiskey in the Jar
As I was a-goin' over Gilgarra Mountain

I spied Colonel Farrell, and his money he was countin'.
First I drew my pistols and then I drew my rapier,
Sayin' "Stand and deliver, for I am your bold receiver." 
Musha ringum duram da,
Whack fol the daddy-o,
There's whiskey in the jar. 

He counted out his money and it made a pretty penny;
I put it in my pocket to take home to darlin' Jenny.
She sighed and swore she loved me and never would deceive me,
Bu the devil take the women, for they always lie so easy!
Musha rungum duram da

I went into me chamber all for to take a slumber,
To dream of gold and girls, and of course it was no wonder:
Me Jenny took me charges and she filled them up with water,
Called on Colonel Farrell to get ready for the slaughter.
Musha rungum duram da

Next mornin' early, before I rose for travel,
A-came a band of footmen and likewise Colonel Farrell.
I goes to draw my pistol, for she'd stole away my rapier,
But a prisoner I was taken, I couldn't shoot the water.
Musha rungum duram da

They put me into jail with a judge all a-writin':
For robbin' Colonel Farrell on Gilgarra Mountain.
But they didn't take me fists and I knocked the jailer down
And bid a farewell to this tight-fisted town.
Musha ringum duram da

I'd like to find me brother, the one who's in the army;
I don't know where he's stationed, be it Cork or in Killarney.
Together we'd go roamin' o'er the mountains of Kilkenny,
And I swear he'd treat me fairer than my darlin' sportin' Jenny!
Musha ringum duram da

There's some takes delight in the carriages and rollin',
Some takes delight in the hurley or the bollin',
But I takes delight in the juice of the barley,
Courtin' pretty maids in the mornin', o so early!
Musha ringum duram da

I hope you and yours enjoy the festivities, and have a joyful and safe St Patrick's Day!

Books: Dragons of the Valley

2011-03-07T10:15:00.001-05:00

As for February...

2011-02-28T14:49:00.000-05:00

...

Now that I am feeling better, I think that if I get sick one more time before we get 60 degree weather that I should go into hibernation. It's the only reasonable course of action.

...

We had about 4 weeks of alternating illnesses in our house and I can say with complete certainty that if I get sick again in the near future my sanity may not stay intact (I can only handle so much day time TV, chicken broth, and crackers). So please, I do love Winter, but I am ready for warmer weather.

We also had some great days in there with family and friends for birthdays of all ages, pictures to come soon! I hope that you and yours are doing well, and that March brings more consistency in my posts as well as better health for us all!

Some days

2011-02-18T13:53:00.000-05:00

...you're the windshield, some days you're the bug. When I need inner strength, I look here:

If

by Rudyard Kipling

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or, being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;

If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with triumph and disaster
And treat those two imposters just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with wornout tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on";

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run -
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man my son!

Everything in its time...

2011-02-17T10:15:00.001-05:00

So, along with the heavy snowfall-induced illness that we have been battling with we have also been playing catch-up on a lot of things lately. It took a lot to dig out of the piles of snow we received, and Riley was not terribly pleased that by the end of it the snow was well over his shoulder height (this photo is from early in the day during the Winter storm). But we are finally defrosting it seems, and even if it is only a short reprieve from the cold weather I am happy to see it. I think the hardest part for me was having my husband so far away during the storm, he was working out of state and they kept extending his stay due to scheduling issues. I was so grateful for him to be home, safe and sound, after a couple extra days.

Meanwhile, I've doing a lot of cooking: baking homemade bread almost every week, making chicken soup and roasted garlic soup to help our colds, developed a recipe for homemade fish sticks that John actually likes even when baked instead of pan fried, making a buttermilk cake with butter cream frosting for the Hallisy Christmas on 2/5, then making an assortment of dips for the Superbowl party with the Hallisy family, and - to be honest - a whole lot more that my memory fails me on. One of the things that has made me happiest in this area so far this month has been the wonderful feedback from family and friends on the roasted garlic soup recipe, it was wonderful to hear people trying my recipes and truly enjoying them - thank you all for the wonderful compliments!

As I mentioned above, we were finally able to pull everyone together for the Hallisy Christmas Party this month. It was wonderful to be able to see my mom- & dad- in-law, and to be able to spend time with all of the family together. It's been too long since we have been able to accomplish that. I only wish that I had not been dealing with that horrible cold during the festivities. Here are some photos of the family that weekend:

I hope that February is treating you well so far! If you are in our neck of the woods, take some time to enjoy the beautiful weather we've been having and air out the house to shake some of those lingering Winter germs. Until we speak again, take care of you and yours.

The month that was...

2011-01-31T15:03:00.000-05:00

After all the chaos of the holidays it seemed like January was going to be a breeze. Well, I was wrong. Compared to the preceding months I guess you could say it was, if nothing else, less extreme - but it was a busy one none the less.

We started the year out in Chicago, we had gone down for a long weekend for New Years to visit with my mom- & dad- in - law, their family, and some friends. It was a lot of fun and I really enjoyed not having such a tight schedule this trip!

My dad and I like to go to the North American International Auto Show for my birthday each year, and since opening day actually fell on my birthday my mom and hubby came along too. I love the excitement of the event, but my favorite part is always the concept cars. We went to lunch before at Filippa's and then to Kuhnhenn for drinks and snacks afterward. It was a great day!

Then I was sick... and not very pleasant to be around. I am a terrible patient. I kept trying to get up and go to work but I failed for a couple days. John said I couldn't go to work if I got nauseous trying to take a shower. I told him there are no showers at work and I'd be sitting most of the day, but still a no go, unfortunately he had a point. When I finally did get back I only made it a half day then was sick still over the weekend. (note to self: scolding people that say that you look like you are coming down with something and convincing yourself the symptoms can be otherwise explained does not make it go away. Go figure..)

Some of my family have lost loved ones this month. Many thoughts and prayers go out to them and the ones they love, remember the joy they brought into your lives.

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, Love leaves a memory no one can steal.

(From a headstone in Ireland)

So, then this past weekend I went to visit my sister and her family. I had a great time and was so happy to get to hang out with all her little guys as well as catch up with her and my brother-in-law. Her boys were as excited to see me as I was them, within 5 min I was holding both of the 2 younger ones reading them a book while her oldest was at the computer next to me showing me how far he had gotten on Civilization. I also picked up some donations from her for my "I hope to have a baby some time in 2011" mission. Lots of really great stuff, I appreciate it so much!

I've also spent endless hours cooking, playing with my new kitchen gadgets, catching up on movies, and trying to figure out where the month went...

I hope that you are doing well, and that February will be meeting you with good things to come. If you are in the path of the snowstorm that is allegedly headed our way here, please take care with all travels this week (there are more important things then getting to where you are going "on time," life is precious - don't push the hand of fate prematurely). Take care.

Weekend Confessions

2011-01-23T09:02:00.000-05:00

So, life's been pretty crazy. Things are finally slowing down a bit and what is our reward? We get sick. I've had a stomach bug, going on day 5 but it seems to be subsiding, and John seems to be struggling with a severe sinus issue on top of fighting off my germs. Still, over the past few weeks I've had some time to think (this past week more than others, I can only take so much day time tv). So here are some of the conclusions I have come to:

Cooking is a hobby for me, and I love writing my cooking blog. There, I said it. I love cooking and it really is something I enjoy doing when I have free time. Whew, that feels better... You all may have known that already, but I wasn't quite to acceptance yet so work with me here, ok?
To me, Pluto will always be a planet. Enough said.
I burned my hand, badly, on my first run with my pressure canner. But it did not deter me at all, and it's healing quite well after 2 weeks...
I have unrealistic expectations for myself. I haven't really made any progress on reversing this, but admitting is the first step right?
Our Christmas decorations are just now coming down this weekend. I had wanted to keep them up until my mom- & dad- in-law came to visit to celebrate Christmas but they aren't able to make it back until the first weekend in February and I think my poor husband will lose his mind if we don't take them down.

Sigh. I think that's pretty good for today. I'll have some pictures up soon from our adventures over the past month or so. I hope that the new year is treating you and your family well. Take care.

For Those Who Have Gone Before Us

2011-01-05T11:30:00.000-05:00

In loving memory of the family and friends that we and those we love have lost in 2010 and before, we will hold them in our hearts always and their families in our prayers:

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, Love leaves a memory no one can steal.

(From a headstone in Ireland)

Do Not Stand At My Grave and Weep
Mary Elizabeth Frye

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.

A Year in Review

2011-01-04T12:00:00.000-05:00

January: Began taking cooking classes at Filippa's every month, went to Nate's indoor soccer game.

February: Our nephew Blake's birthday, our youngest nephew Sebastian was born.

March: Our oldest nephew Nate's birthday

April: Easter, being sick, BBQs, family visits

May: Our first wedding anniversary, zoo with my sister and her boys, went on a wonderful Cooking Weekend retreat with Stacie, went to "Flower Day" at Eastern Market, gardening

June: Ball Canning House Party, Magahay Elementary School closing, Farmers Market Sundays, Father's Day, family visits, gardening, Supper Club at the Rolfe's, Warren Community Garden committee and first site work

July: Landscaping, Mudhens game for Joe's birthday, we host Supper Club, Christine's baby shower, our nephew Zachary's birthday, Warren Community Garden committee and first site work

August: Melissa and Ryan's bridal shower, Jen and Erik's housewarming, Gail and Jim's bridal shower, Warren Community Garden committee and first site work

September: Labor Day weekend at Romeo Peach Festival, Gail & Jim's parties, Chicago weekend and Colleen & Dom's wedding, Gail & Jim's rehearsal & wedding, Warren Community Garden committee and first site work

October: Melissa & Ryan's wedding, , Warren Community Garden committee and first site work, Super Soccer Saturday, Walt Disney World, Halloween party at the Rolfe's, Halloween night

November: cooking, our nephew Bryce's birthday, repainting one of the bedrooms, Thanksgiving, holiday decorating

December: lots of cooking, Warren tree lighting, holidays with the families, New Years with family and friends in Chicago.

What a busy year! So much going on..

We have a lot to look forward to in 2011, hopefully it'll be a little less busy but we won't have any fewer happy memories. Wishing you and yours a joyful and blessed year to come.

"I've made a resolution not to destroy my ego or self-esteem by declaring any New Year's resolutions. I usually break them within a week, so I decided to give up on them" - Frank Sheridan, Irish Consul

A Couple of My Favorite Holiday Songs

2010-12-24T14:56:00.000-05:00

I know it's been a while, but we've just been so busy lately. I'll be back to give a more genuine update soon! For now, here are a couple of my favorite holiday songs to bring us through the season, both sung by Bing Crosby:

Christmas in Killarney

The holly green, the ivy green
The prettiest picture you've ever seen
Is Christmas in Killarney
With all of the folks at home

It's nice, you know, to kiss your beau
While cuddling under the mistletoe
And Santa Claus you know, of course
Is one of the boys from home

The door is always open
The neighbors pay a call
And Father John before he's gone
Will bless the house and all

How grand it feels to click your heels
And join in the fun of the jigs and reels
I'm handing you no blarney
The likes you've never known
Is Christmas in Killarney
With all of the folks at home

Count Your Blessings (instead of sheep)

When I'm worried and I can't sleep
I count my blessings instead of sheep
And I fall asleep counting my blessings
When my bankroll is getting small
I think of when I had none at all
And I fall asleep counting my blessings

I think about a nursery and I picture curly heads
And one by one I count them as they slumber in their beds
If you're worried and you can't sleep
Just count your blessings instead of sheep
And you'll fall asleep counting your blessings

I think about a nursery and I picture curly heads
And one by one I count them as they slumber in their beds
If you're worried and you can't sleep
Just count your blessings instead of sheep
And you'll fall asleep counting your blessings

Wishing you and yours a joyful and safe holiday!

Seasonal Affective Disorder Awareness Month

2010-12-09T11:24:00.000-05:00

Just for Fun - A Look at 2010

2010-12-08T08:36:00.000-05:00

Books, books, where are my books?

2010-12-03T08:16:00.001-05:00

Over the past couple years I am happy to say that I have found an author that I truly love. I have spent years reading and revisiting works by Jack Kerouac, Rudyard Kipling, Kay Redfield Jamison, and a host of different biographical and period study style works. With little time for recreational reading while I was in my MA program an author really had to stand out to get me to stay with their books. Finally one did: Jeffrey Overstreet.

I am a very visual person. I have found that I would prefer that the author spend the time to create a full sense of the environment then to add in unnecessary dialogue. The setting can move along the plot line in ways that dialogue can't, when used properly. I generally consider a book a success if I can be pulled into it completely and it can hold both my artistic and intellectual focus throughout the text. As you can imagine, I am more often disappointed then not. This is why I was thrilled to find a new author that can do just that. Maybe it's his experience as a film critic that helps him create those alternate realities with such a visually compelling pull, or maybe he just thinks in a more sensory manner, either way I have yet to be disappointed with his books. His series consists of 4 books, the last of which I am impatiently waiting for since it is not due out until the Spring, and appropriately carries along in it a theme of color. The books are, in order: Auralia's Colors, Cyndere's Midnight, Raven's Ladder, and the soon to be released novel The Ale Boy's Feast. Here is my review of the most recent release - Raven's Ladder.

Raven's Ladder

This book, like the others in the series, was captivating. The text is so visually compelling that it is truly an escape to another land where the conceptual undertones of the story play out before you. The character development and interconnections that began in the earlier parts of the series continue to expand into a world that you can easily be immersed in. I was very relieved to hear that there will be another book in the series, but am saddened that it will end there. I have rarely found a modern author that so completely captures my imagination as the author here does. A wonderful text to help escape everyday life.

Now, there is a website by Water Brook Multnomah Publishing that started a program recently called "Blogging for Books." I am posting my review there as well since I have recently signed up for the program. I did not, however, receive this particular book as a part of the program. I will, in the future, be posting reviews here of books that I do receive from them. I highly suggest checking out the site. It's a great opportunity for bloggers to get some free books and to generate honest feedback on them.

Thankful (4)

2010-11-30T10:16:00.000-05:00

November
To keep in mind, during the rush of the season, all those things that mean so much - I'll be trying to spend a post each week reflecting on those things for which I am thankful. Each day of the month will have it's own entry in a post. This is week four.

22nd - Adjusted schedules. My husband gets out of work an hour and a half before me every day and sometimes that just makes all the difference in being able to get a few more errands done and still having our time together at night. It may be filled with prepping for the upcoming holiday, but doing it together makes it somehow easier.

23rd - Family of every kind. Happy birthday to the best dad-in-law I could have asked for! I hope it was a wonderful day, we missed having you here with us to celebrate. My Aunt Patty came up to work to pick some stuff up, I love those days. I always walk away from the short visit with a hug, a few laughs, and a smile. What more could you ask for? The little things make all the difference.

24th - Special traditions. Every year for as long as I can remember my mom sits down the night before Thanksgiving with us and makes a ridiculous number of her delicious Dutch Apple Pies, with the "voluntary" help of her children of course! Well, over the years it has become more voluntary since my sister and I moved out and started families of our own, but my husband and I still come over to help every time. There's just something special about the expected bantering with a Christmas music soundtrack playing in the background and the delectable aroma of warm pies in the oven. The wine doesn't hurt either...

25th - Holidays with the ones you love close, in body and in spirit. I truly loved hosting Thanksgiving this year!
Everyone brought delicious food to share and I was happy to be able to make the main dishes and a few essentials, somehow sharing good food with family makes the cooking even more fun. It was a great day hanging out, skyping with the family in Chicago, playing with all the nephews, and of course eating. Hope everyone else enjoyed it too!

‎"I’ve got plenty to be thankful for. I’ve got eyes to see with, ears to hear with, arms to hug with, lips to kiss with, someone to adore. How could anybody ask for more? My needs are small, I buy ‘em all, at the five and ten cent store. Oh, I’ve got plenty to be thankful for." Sung by Bing Crosby, Lyrics by Irving Berlin

26th - Faith. Things get better every year, and when there are struggles it helps so much to have that faith to fall back on. Faith in spirituality, faith in our love, faith in our strength, faith in the ability for everything to come together in the end. There are many types of faith to hold on to in this world, and they are all more valuable then gold.

27th - Finding uses for everything. Making stock from the leftover turkey bones and then using it for "Thanksgiving Leftovers Soup." (Using leftover vegetables, gravy, turkey, stock, and mashed potatoes. Sorry, no cranberries here.) A delicious bowl of the flavors of the season, perfect for a cold wintry day

28th - Winter sunshine. It makes for a wonderful day to hang Christmas decorations both inside and out. Our home is almost fully festive, a few more finishing touches and we'll be done.

(Riley "helping" to decorate)

Thankful (3)

2010-11-23T09:05:00.000-05:00

November
To keep in mind, during the rush of the season, all those things that mean so much - I'll be trying to spend a post each week reflecting on those things for which I am thankful. Each day of the month will have it's own entry in a post. This is week three.

15th - Cooking class Mondays at Filippa's Wine Barrel. This month's theme was Thanksgiving and Chef went through a full holiday meal, from turkey all the way down to pumpkin pie. Next month we are doing prime rib (can't wait, I'm terrified to try to make this at home right now), a soup, some more holiday style sides, and chocolate desserts.

16th - Family made quilts. When I'm not feeling well one of the best comforts I can think of is in the wonderful quilts made by John's Aunt Connie. I still have to patch up some areas of his original one, it was very well loved, but the comfort is still unbelievable. I most sincerely love our quilts.

17th - Extended family. Sending thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery to my uncle who shattered his ankle while trying to get the deer he already shot while hunting down out of the tree. Please somebody tell him he's not 20 anymore... being young at heart has to help recovery, right? I love you Uncle Jim!

18th - Community gardening (Warren Community Gardens). Having a place where gardens can spread to fill the voids in the community through satisfying hunger, bringing people together, and restoring natural beauty. Being on the board and being a part of this from inception has been a wonderful experience, looking forward to the Spring!

19th - Photos of family. Seeing an adorable picture of my youngest nephew when I woke up, unfortunately my sister was seeing his adorable little face at about 3 am. But it made my morning!

20th - Our home. Having a roof over our heads and family underneath. Even with the hours on end of repairs, redecorating, and cleaning - I wouldn't trade it for anything. Before and after pictures of the painting I did in one of the bedrooms this weekend and the last.

21st - Cozy nights by the fire. A night spent snuggled up on the couch with a hot toddy, the warm glow of a fire in the fireplace, watching a Bing Crosby and Frank Sinatra film.

Thankful (2)

2010-11-15T13:54:00.001-05:00

November
To keep in mind, during the rush of the season, all those things that mean so much - I'll be trying to spend a post each week reflecting on those things for which I am thankful. Each day of the month will have it's own entry in a post. This is week two.

8th - Unexpected warm weather. I love it when it is in the 60's or 70's out. What a lovely day!

9th - Fans. Our office was almost 80 degrees inside for the majority of the week. Cooler weather does not always equal a cooler office environment apparently.

10th - Successful recipes. My hubby made me so happy when he requested a recently developed recipe that we had a couple weeks ago (Honey Ginger Chicken). New recipes usually take a month to get back into the rotation :) the promotion for this one made my day.

11th - Our Veterans. Family, friends, and many others. We should do more than sing the praises of the bravery that our veterans have embodied in the past. We should take this opportunity to re-evaluate how we are treating our veterans in the present. Let us remember the service of our veterans, and renew our national promise to fulfill our sacred obligations to our veterans and their families who have sacrificed so much that we may live free.

12th - My husband's IT skills in resolving our internet issues. Seriously. This was fantastic.

13th - Wonderful in-laws! Had a great time at Bryce's 4th Birthday party. Loved being able to see my mom- & dad- in -law, in town from Chicago for the weekend, and had a great time hanging out with everyone. The kids were adorable of course, and had endless energy. It's wonderful having such great family to spend time with.

14th - Productive Sundays. John got up early and taped and primed the bedroom we planned to paint. Then we went to have breakfast with John's family in the morning before his parents went back to Chicago, it was great to have everyone together for a nice, relaxing Sunday morning. When we got back I started painting the bedroom, finished the bottom half, the chair rail, and the trim around the doors. John cleaned up around the house and played some games. We finished off the evening with a fire in the fireplace, a movie, and cuddling on the couch. Perfect.

Let's go back..

2010-11-10T14:28:00.000-05:00

waaaaayyyy back. Ok, not that far back. Just a bit. There you go, middle of October.
(Feel like your working your DVR? Yeah, me too. Guess our brains start to mimic technology after a while..)

Anyway - Last month we went on a very ambitious family vacation to Walt Disney World in Florida. And by family I mean us, my parents, my sister and her family. Yep, all nine of us - boarded a plane together - rode on a bus together - stayed at a resort together - went to the parks together - rode the bus back together - flew back together - and came out in one piece. (that last part is the real miracle here) The best part? We really did have a great time! My parents planned the trip in celebration of their 30th anniversary which was in the Spring of this year. It was perfect. Here's a brief look at how it all came together:

Tuesday we flew down in the morning. Unfortunately I became quite dizzy on the plane which left me feeling pretty drained the rest of the day, really weird since I don't normally have problems flying. John and I had planned to go to a park in the afternoon but that changed things up a bit and we ended up spending some time at the resort, hanging out by the pool, and heading to Downtown Disney for dinner at one of our favorite restaurants - Raglan Road - with my parents. Flexibility is always key in families and vacations, put them together and you can't get by without it! John and I ordered a gift basket for my parents that arrived in their room in the evening. It had sparkling wine, snacks, Mickey wine glasses, and Bride and Groom Ears (which they wore to EPCOT the next day). We were so happy that they liked it!

Feeling more rested, we were back on track on Wednesday. John and I went to Disney Hollywood Studios in the morning and ran alongside the crowd to get a chance to ride the new Toy Story Arcade attraction. Then after a quick photo op with one of the "green army men" from the movies, we stopped by one of our "must see" attractions - The Great Movie Ride. A little tame for some people, but we love it! We wandered through some shops down the main strip and hopped a boat over to EPCOT.

We met the rest of the family in the World Showcase and went to Le Cellier, the Canadian pavilion steakhouse, for my parents' official anniversary meal. The kids were able to get some coloring done in the Kidcot area while we waited since we were early for our reservations. The food there is always excellent and that afternoon was no exception. After lunch we began to work our way around the countries and enjoyed the Food and Wine Festival for a couple hours along with some character meet and greets. At the United Kingdom pavilion we met the owner of Twining's Tea in the tea shop where he was doing a guest appearance for the festival. John and I headed back to the resort for a break but my sister's family and my parents continued through the countries for a few more hours. After we had some down time, John and I headed back out to EPCOT to catch some rides and enjoy the festival some more. We had dinner at the counter service in the Norway pavilion and were happy to add that to our list of preferred stops. We, of course, went on the Norway ride and then met up with my parents and Nate (my sister's oldest son) to watch Illuminations, go on the ride a second time (yes, it is just that awesome), and walk around the countries a bit. John and I took Nate and went on Spaceship Earth so my parents could have some time together. We actually met up again at the bus stop heading back to the resort.

Thursday we took a bit slower. We had a nice breakfast with the family then all the boys headed to Downtown Disney to go to Disney Quest, a giant indoor interactive park, several hours of gaming later they headed back. While they were gone my mom, my sister, and I went to the spa at the resort. We used the sauna, steam room, and hot tub before and after our services (me and my mom had massages, my sister a pedicure). We met the boys for lunch feeling quite relaxed and refreshed. Then it was back to the rooms to get ready and costume up for Mickey's Not So Scary Halloween Party at Magic Kingdom.
The party is one of the best parts of the Fall season, it's right up there with EPCOT's Food and Wine Festival. We spent the night trick or treating, meeting characters that are more rare, watching the villians' dance party and then doing meet and greets there, watching the Boo To You parade, and enjoying the Hallowishes fireworks. It was a blast, and so much fun dressing up with the whole family. My parents were adorable as Alice and the Mad Hatter, John and I went as Little Red Riding Hood and the Big Bad Wolf, my sister had all three boys dressed up and her and Todd were decked out in festive Halloween hats. I think this family portrait is definitely a keeper!

Friday John and I spent the day at Animal Kingdom. My sister's family headed over to Blizzard Beach water park, and managed to pull my parents along too (who can say no when the grandkids get all teary at the thought of leaving Gra and Papa back at the resort? No grandparents I know). We took our time wandering around and enjoying the atmosphere. After an early lunch we did Expedition Everest, the Bug's Life 3d attraction, and then saw the Lion King show which is amazing. We stopped, of course, to visit with some characters along the way and then found a nice spot to relax while we waited for the parade. Post-parade we met my parents and Nate for dinner at the Yak and Yeti, another one of our favorite restaurants, and then headed back to the resort for a relaxing evening.

Saturday we packed up our stuff early and took it to the bell station. Then John and I headed over to Magic Kingdom to try to get on the newly renovated Space Mountain and to see the updated Hall of Presidents. We had hoped to have lunch at Liberty Tree Tavern but failed to realize it was only open for dinner. Unfortunately Space Mountain was having technical problems so we weren't able to go on the ride, we'll have to make sure we catch it next time. The Hall of Presidents was great, yes we are nerds (but to be fair, if you are our friends there's a good chance you are too!) IT was actually pretty cool to see not only the evolution of the presidency but also the progress of animatronics since each president is added the year they are elected. We also spent some time over at the Pirates of the Caribbean ride, caught a live show out front, and John had a meet and greet with pirate goofy :) We headed back to the resort and then over to Downtown Disney for the afternoon. We met my parents and Nate for lunch, they had watched the three boys so my sister and Todd could have a nice meal together while on the trip. Then we went shopping in the "Marketplace" area. I got a carryout from the Irish counter service and brought it back to the resort where we camped out in a back room until the bus arrived to take us to the airport. The flight back went more smoothly for me and we arrived around 11 pm.

It was so much fun watching my sister's boys throughout the trip, the joy that kids experience is like no other. Nate was taking it all in, remembering some things from when John and I took him down with my parents 2 years ago and experiencing things he hadn't before. Zachary was constantly adorable, his personality is coming on strong at 2 years old, and his endless joy at seeing us each day was as precious as his awe at everything around him. Sebastian, at only about 6 months old, did fantastic! He napped both in the room and while we were out at the parks, he played and laughed and was just happy to have us all there for the whole week. The all were even incredible on the flights, I couldn't believe how well they did. The two youngest may not remember as much as Nate but hopefully the pictures will help them to know how much fun we all had together.

Thankful

2010-11-08T09:50:00.000-05:00

November
To keep in mind, during the rush of the season, all those things that mean so much - I'll be trying to spend a post each week reflecting on those things for which I am thankful. Each day of the month will have it's own entry in a post.

1st -Work life balance. Having a job that I am good at, and having sick days when I need them. Overall "balance" is more of a long term goal, but you have to start somewhere!

2nd - Migraine medicine.. I didn't catch it in time this week, but I'm grateful for the amount of help it did afford me despite my poor timing.

3rd - How my husband cares for me. He was amazing all week with how sick I had become, he was so supportive and patient. I couldn't have made it through without him.

4th - My mother. Everything she has done for me, all the faith and support she has given me, and for how close we have become over the years. I look forward to all that I will continue to learn from you as time passes on. Happy Birthday Mom! (photo of necklace I made her for her birthday: pearls, garnets, and smoky quartz)

5th - Good times. Some of John's friends (Matt, Joe, and Rich) came in for the weekend. We had a lovely dinner Friday night, many thanks to Matt and Joe, with good food and friends. The night ended perfectly with a glass of mead in my recliner listening to the guys excitedly catch up and talk about their plans for the weekend.

6th - Good friends. Spending the day shopping, which I usually dread, was actually a great time due to the company of great friends. Thank you Kristin, Stacie, and Gail! We'll have to head back up to Frankenmuth again soon :) Photo courtesy of Kristin

7th - Relaxing Sundays. A day filled with church, jewelry making, family, tea, a fire in the fireplace, and movies on the couch with my hubby. Sundays may just well be the perfect days.

I hope that you had an enjoyable weekend, and that the Winter season is treating you well. Take care.

All Things Halloween

2010-11-05T14:18:00.000-04:00

A little late, I know, but I've been sick all week so even now this is a bit of a stretch. I still need to get a post up about our trip, and I will, but I thought I'd throw up a few shots from Halloween first since it's easier.

While we were in Florida with the family we went to Mickey's Not So Scary Halloween Party. It was a blast! My parents were adorable, they dressed up as Alice in Wonderland and the Mad Hatter :) My sister and brother-in-law didn't dress up but they did pick up some cute Halloween hats to wear. Their boys were adorable! John and I were Little Red Riding Hood and the Big Bad Wolf. We had so much fun, they have a separate admission for the party where they had: trick or treat trails, special character meet and greets, the villain dance party, villain meet and greets, and the Hallowishes fireworks display.

On October 30th we went to Travis and Kristin's Halloween Party :) It was great! Kristin did an amazing job, as always, with her favorite holiday. The costumes were so much fun, the food was great, and the company was the best. Stacie made hers and Joe's costumes, she did a great job and they were defintiely the cutest costumes there!

In the morning on Halloween we went to the last Farmers Market of the season in Warren, snagged up some good produce and enjoyed the beautiful day.
In the afternoon I made kielbasa and slow cooker chili, it smelled fantastic in the house! In the evening we stayed home and handed out candy. We had a good amount of kids, but I always wish we had more come by. Riley posed with our little pumpkin display.

I hope that you had a safe and happy Halloween and the Fall is treating you well! Bracing for the clocks to fall back this weekend...

Family Fun

2010-10-27T11:28:00.000-04:00

Sooooooo... yeah. Ok, a lot has been going on since my last post. The whirlwind of weddings finally came to an end and we catapulted forward again for a week and a half of family fun!

Let's start with the first long weekend shall we? That would be October 15th-18th. Friday night we went to Khunhenn for drinks and dinner. We were excited to relax before vacation and decided to call my parents to come join us. It was the perfect way to get into that "vacation spirit".

Saturday we did a nephew soccer "double header," first to Nate's game and then to Blake's. It's amazing how much they have both improved! Definitely a good fit for both of them. Nate has gone from being distracted half the time to being one of the best players on the team, I was so happy to overhear several parents and teammates talking about how good he was.

Blake is really starting to get the "look" of a soccer player, when he wasn't flirting with the little girl on their team over by the goal that is, and he is definitely getting good at manuevering around the bigger players. I felt like such a proud Aunt watching them both play, and of course taking as many pictures as I could of our two soccer stars :)

After the games we went back to Chris and Becca's to hangout with the Hallisy family. It was great having everyone together - John's parents were in from Chicago for the weekend and Bendan & Becky came in from Lansing with the kids to hang out. We had good food and great company, couldn't ask for more!

Sunday we had some errands to run and cleaned up a bit around the house. In the afternoon John's parents came over to spend the night. John made his delicious tenderloin roast with potatoes and I made spaghetti squash casserole for dinner. It was delicious! There was barely a bite left when we were all done. For dessert we all went up to Erma's for frozen custard :) It was a beautiful night out and it was a great way to spend time with the family.

Monday morning John's parents left and took Riley with them for the week while we were in Florida. It was hard to watch him go but I knew he'd be appropriately spoiled all week once they got back to Chicago. I was worried that he would be a lot of trouble in their apartment but they said he was a pleasure. I'm so happy the trip went well for them, he loves spending time with his "grandparents," even if they let him talk them into sharing their bacon with him :) I just wish they weren't so far away since I really miss spending time with them too. We had some errands to run and packing to do for the rest of the day. Monday night was cooking class at Filippa's Wine Barrel for me and my mom, while John had Karate class. Then it was off to bed for a couple hours sleep before getting up for our flight Tuesday morning.

The rest to come soon in a separate entry for our trip. I know I've been back since Sunday, but with so much to catch up on at work and at home it's been hard to find a spare moment of time! I hope the past couple weeks have been treating you well. I will be back in touch soon, take care.

Celebrating, shopping, and recovering

2010-10-08T10:07:00.000-04:00

Well, here we are again. And yes, it did get a bit out of hand. So last weekend... hmmm... not really sure, to be honest, it seems like a bit of a blur right now. Friday was the end of my fitness boot camp mornings and I was very happy with the results. Now I just need to keep up the healthy eating routine and the exercise.

Saturday we ran some errands in the morning, and then went to Melissa and Ryan's wedding in the afternoon/evening. It was definitely a chilly day, but Melissa looked lovely and Ryan couldn't have been happier. It's wonderful seeing our friends so happy and being able to share in their celebration!

Sunday we finished up errands and figured out our Halloween costumes for our trip and for Kristin & Travis's party. We picked mine up at the store and will be getting John's together this weekend.

This week has been rough. I think all the activity finally caught up to me. I have been sick most of the week and am finally starting to feel better. I know you can't "catch up" on sleep, but my body seemed to think otherwise. My wonderful husband has been taking such good care of me, I can't express how much it helped!

I tried to make dinner last night and by the time I trimmed, cleaned, and prepped the brussel sprouts I was exhausted and had to lay down. Much to my surprise I discovered that yes - I like brussel sprouts - go figure. I'd always avoided them because they looked kind of creepy, like pre-mature baby heads of cabbage, but as it turns out they are quite good (particularly boiled and then topped with a breadcrumb mixture and broiled). And what did we enjoy this with? Take out. Because I didn't have the ability to get off the couch. Oh well, at least we had our veggies. It was off to bed early once again. Hopefully this weekend will kickoff with me feeling better. We have plans to paint one of the bedrooms and I'd hate to get off schedule, we all know how I feel about that.. So, it's time to kick whatever this illness is out and move on. Hopefully.

I hope that all is well with you, and that you are staying healthy. Take care and enjoy the weather warm up (that I am currently cursing) if you are in our area. I love Fall weather, hopefully it returns to us soon!

Here are some pictures from Melissa and Ryan's wedding last weekend:

Jim & Gail's Wedding

2010-10-05T12:20:00.000-04:00

As promised in last week's post, here are the photos from Jim and Gail's wedding on September 26th. My hubby John was a groomsman, as was our friend Travis. I took a lot of pictures, so these are just the highlights..

Movies, Celebrations, and a Harvest

2010-10-01T09:17:00.000-04:00

Last weekend was a crazy one again! We went to dinner with Kristin and a bunch of friends for her birthday Friday night, we had a great time and the food was fantastic. I also found out one of my best friends, Jenny, is pregnant! She's due in April! I can't wait. She just had her first ultrasound and I can tell you already, that little peanut is going to be a cutie :)

Saturday morning we went to see The Guardians in 3D. The effects were amazing, they have definitely done a great job with the animation. The story line was much better then I expected. While I still maintain, much to my hubby's dismay, that it ties too obviously to historical events as the main plot line I truly did enjoy it. I found some of the subplots to be very engaging and appreciated the attention to detail visually. Unfortunately in my currently frazzled mental state there isn't much more I can say off hand without giving away too much. Not a movie for very young children, but definitely one I would recommend overall.

Saturday afternoon was Jim and Gail's rehearsal at Mathaei Botanical Gardens.

After the rehearsal we spent some time wandering around the gardens with Travis and Kristin. I think I took over a hundred pictures just of the plants, children's garden, and landscaping. It was absolutely beautiful.

For the rehearsal dinner we went to Station 885 in Plymouth. The food was great, and the company was of course even better! Sunday was the wedding, which will get a post all its own because of the massive amount of pictures I took (I couldn't help it! The gardens and ceremony were just so beautiful, my inner photographer came bounding out).

Lately I've been at the Warren Community Gardens early in the morning helping out since things have been too busy for me in the evenings. The garden has such an abundance of veggies and growth that it is hard to keep up with, thankfully we have some amazing volunteers that cycle through to help out whenever they can. It almost seems like the little you get done alone doesn't make a dent but once you see everyone's efforts adding up it is amazing what a community can do!

Before things get out of hand..

2010-09-24T13:31:00.001-04:00

Let's try to toss a quick update and a few pictures out there shall we?
Wedding weekend #1: Collen & Dom 9/18

We had a great time last weekend in Chicago.
We drove down with Stacie and Joe Friday night and stayed with my mom- & dad-in-law. We were late getting in so we didn't stay up too late talking, but it was nice to spend at least some time together right away. The drive itself wasn't too bad, and it's always fun when you have good company with you :)

Saturday we had breakfast with the family and had some time just to hang out together. I always struggle with having people that I love so far away, but it definitely makes you treasure the time that you do have together. The wedding was beautiful, and Collen made a gorgeous bride.

We had a blast at the reception. They had a lovely slideshow of wedding photos of family members during dinner, which was delicious by the way, and I love it when so many friends and family members get out and dance and have a good time. We actually stayed until the end of the night and took a few group pictures after we were all tired and sweaty (perhaps not the wisest choice for order of events but it worked out ok).

Sunday we had brunch with the other side of the family. It was a nice, relaxing way to round out the trip. Hanging out, eating, talking, meeting Angela's adorable little twin boys, playing with Cassi and Gina's new puppy, and just enjoying everyone's company is a fantastic way to spend a Sunday.

Unfortunately we also had to head back home. We stopped at the St Julian's Winery on the way for a quick wine tasting and to get our favorite dessert wine (Founder's Pride) since they don't sell it anywhere else. Again, the ride wasn't too bad, and it was fun talking to Stacie and Joe some more.

This week has gone by so fast! It was my 3rd week of my fitness bootcamp, and sadly I had my first injury when I hurt my ankle Wednesday morning working out in the rainy weather. John had karate class Monday while me and my mom had cooking class. The store where my mom is a jeweler had an attempted robbery this week, it's going to take some time to for her to handle the resulting trauma but she is doing what she needs to right now and I am so proud of her, she has so much strength. I can't imagine how I would have reacted when faced with what she had to deal with personally that day. I love you mom! Now we are rounding out the week back where we bagan - Wedding Weekend #2: Jim and Gail. We can't wait to share this special day with you guys!

And so it goes on.. I hope that you all have had a fantastic week and that you have a great weekend. Take care!

Food, friends, and fun.. round and round again..

2010-09-14T14:20:00.000-04:00

Ok, so I'm getting caught up on here but my cooking blog has been seriously neglected. I was determined to get another "healthy alternative" recipe up but my stomach finally won me over and guided me elsewhere. So it ended up being Sweet Potato Bites and the chicken took a "back burner" so to speak. Check it out here: Cooking for Peace of Mind

On the topic of food, I've also been playing with different healthy ideas for snacks. What I came up with last night was a sweet, very low fat, apple dip. Very easy - just half a container of low fat or fat free cream cheese softened, 1/4 cup of brown sugar, 1/2 cup powdered sugar, a couple drops of vanilla extract, and a handful of butterscotch chips. Use a hand mixer to blend the first four ingredients together, stir in the chips, and refridgerate for at least 20 minutes. Then dig in! Also very good with low fat vanilla wafers or graham crackers.. yummm..

Now on to the "friends" and "fun" part! Last weekend we had our friends', Jim & Gail, bachelor/ette parties. The guys were all over at our place starting around 10 am (except for those that came in the night before from Chicago) for a day of fun filled nerd style rowdiness. The night before my hubby and I went to our new favorite local brewery Kuhnhenn for beer and mead, he brought back a growler of his favorite beer for the party.

In the afternoon I headed out to their house for Gail's party. We had a great time going out to dinner, having drinks, and walking around the Fall Festival. I hope they enjoyed their parties as much as we all did! (there's a ton more pictures, some are posted elsewhere but all will somehow be passed along to our guests of honor)

And now, with lightening speed, we're back into the work week. A fun filled week of 5:30 am exercises, meetings, paperwork, stopping by the Warren Community Gardens for some early morning photos, hubby busy with jury duty stuff and starting Karate classes, getting ready for the whirlwind of weddings, and trying to fit in time to schedule a Fisher Price House Party that I won a host spot for (www.houseparty.com). So much to do.. I hope that you have had a good weekend and start to the week. Take care, and don't forget to stop for hugs (people seriously underestimate the importance of a good hug, the benefits are endless).

The holiday weekend and beyond

2010-09-09T10:22:00.000-04:00

Last weekend was great, busy but great! We seemed to have things going on constantly but it didn't feel stressed or rushed. We were dog sitting for my parents so we had 2 extra little dogs running around for the long weekend, but they get along well with Riley so it was good (even though I'm allergic to my dad's little princess, they cut her hair extra short so it isn't terrible).

Friday night we went out to Stacie and Joe's for dinner and games. They used their raclette for dinner and it was amazing! Stacie made great food, the marinated chicken and beef was so delicious with those fresh veggies and cheeses. We'd never used a raclette before so Joe gave us a brief tutorial before dinner (see picture), altough I wasn't paying very close attention so Stacie had to do it again once we sat down :) I can't wait until we can talk them into doing it again! After dinner we had some wine and played Disney Trivial Pursuit (from the 1980's). What a wonderful start to the weekend.

Saturday John had Trav and Jim over to play :) I headed out to Northville to look for some little gifts for Gail's bachellorette party this coming weekend. I managed to find one little gift and a good bottle of sparkling wine for the night, still need something to go with it though. Stopped on the way back to get supplies to make cannoli cream dessert dip for the night at Phil and Julie's. We hung out for a bit in the afternoon, I made the dip, then we headed out. We had a great time with everyone at Phil and Julie's for pizza and we watched X-Men with the Riff Trax (so much fun!). Their little boy, John, is absolutely adorable! Everyone seemed to like the dip and it was nice to just sit around and talk after the movie,

Sunday we had the Farmers' Market, of course, and some errends to run. In the evening we went out to the Peach Festival in Romeo. We met up with Hieu, a friend of mine from high school, while we were there. It was nice to catch up in person instead of online for a change :) We watched the bed races, classic car cruise, and mummer's parade. We usually go to the Children's Parade Monday morning with my parents and my sister and her family but with my parents out of town and my sister being sick we decided it would be fun to try the night stuff. I love the Peach Festival, and am always happy that with it comes apple season (which of course is cider season).

Monday we slept in! Once we got moving we went out to the my favorite orchard, Westview, for fruit and cider. We also stopped to get new exercise shoes for me since, in a strange impulse buy, I signed up for fitness boot camp through groupon (normal price 189, the groupon price was 50). It started Tuesday and is 3 days a week from 5:30 - 6:30 am. My body thinks I have lost my mind.

I did lots of cooking this week too, experimenting with some new things: stuffed patty pan squash, rosemary chicken drumsticks, a variation of my dad's breakfast cookies, and soon will be trying sweet potatoes.. So far, all have been with great success!

Whew.. so, here we are. Getting ready for the parties this weekend and hopefully John's parents will be coming up to visit. Hopefully you are doing well and having fun as the Summer winds down into Fall. Take care.

For my dad..

2010-09-07T11:10:00.001-04:00

Happy Birthday :)

When I was little you told me many things - that I could be anything I wanted to be, that everything would be ok, that family is always there (even when you don't want them to be), that sarcasm (as wonderful as it is) is a form of communication that easily goes too far and "we have to stop before it upsets your mother," that a little more cookie dough never hurts..

What I saw in you gave me even more - I always dreamed of growing up and having a college ring from graduate school just like yours (it was the most wonderful thing I ever saw you wear outside of your wedding band), that being s "kid" doesn't have to end when you turn 18, sometimes love is as simple as holding your daughter's hand until she falls asleep (even while she's just "resting her eyes"), having faith is important, sharing your gifts with others is one of the greatest gifts of all..

There's really so much more, but you get the idea. I love you dad!

Old as she was, she still missed her daddy sometimes. ~Gloria Naylor

Gardening

2010-09-01T09:10:00.003-04:00

Summer is going by so fast! I like to think that, in general, when we get to September that Fall is on its way here in Michigan. Sadly the weather does not seem to agree with me this year. The extended hot streaks have taken their toll on our gardens and landscaping. Thankfully most of my vegetable garden has remained successful and, much to my surprise, my developing "wildflower" garden is thriving. Hopefully I'll have some pictures this weekend to post, I just haven't had time or have been too exhausted after being in the heat.

I am happy to say, however, that I have pictures from the growing Warren Community Gardens both vegetable and butterfly gardens that have sprung up this year. I have gone out early before work to get some photos "waking up with the gardens." It really is nice to relax and take the time to find beauty in each plant and new growth.
We have a great group that came together to form the board and are excited to have three new sites lined up for next year to join our initial vegetable garden site. The butterfly gardens are amazing too! Anyone can go through the process to have a certified monarch waystation on their property and we are excited at the amount of interest that has already come in. The community has been amazing and we have had so many donations from local businesses as well as citizens and have had great support from the city and Mayor Fouts. None of this could have come together without their generosity.

Hoping for rain soon!
Take care, and I hope that you and yours have a safe and happy Labor Day weekend.

Gail & Jim's Shower

2010-08-29T14:06:00.000-04:00

Just few pictures from yesterday :) Lots of fun with good friends, can't wait for the bachelorette/bachelor parties and the wedding! Congrats and lots of love

I love you all, really I do...

2010-08-16T13:55:00.001-04:00

but come on... Can't we spread this out a bit?

Our weekends lately: dinner party, baby shower, birthdays, bridal shower, bridal shower, bridal shower I couldn't attend because I was at the aforementioned one, housewarming party...

And now, take a deep breath, we have coming up: John's friends in town, bridal shower, weekend free (don't even think about planning anything), supper club, wedding, wedding, and - wait for it - yet another wedding.

This much happiness is exhausting.

But really, we do love you guys, it just slows down my updates a bit. So have a little patience with me and I'll try to stay in touch better. I hope that things are going well for you and that you have a bit more downtime than us, particularly those of you planning the upcoming weddings we'll be attending (take a deep breath, it's all worth it in the end)

We did manage to catch a movie Saturday morning - The Expendables. I loved it, a classic action flick. If you're looking for a movie with endless explosions, elaborate chase scenes, minimal plot, and a few classic action stars tossed in for good measure, then this film's for you. Really, there's not much more to it than that, but it was definitely a good time.

Now, once again, I have to run. Take care.

Movies: Reflections & Spoilers (read at your own risk)

2010-08-03T09:54:00.000-04:00

Ok, so my last week or so hasn't been terribly exciting. I haven't been feeling well and think that it was probably a sinus infection that was wearing me down, unfortunately there are still a few lingering symptoms but overall I'm doing much better. Since this has had me isolated from a lot of activity there isn't too much that is exciting to post about. So I thought I'd give my perspective on a couple films we've seen recently: Inception & The Sorcerer's Apprentice. Two very different movies and, in my opinion, two of the best films of the summer (after Toy Story 3, of course, which was quite possibly one of the best of the year. Don't scoff, it was definitely a movie that was not only geared towards children but also went back to Disney's true roots of targeting adults just as much, if not more, with the subtle plot points and details)

Inception -

It was very intellectually engaging but not emotionally stimulating enough for the subject matter. I love intellectually well developed movies but with the inherent creativity and artistic nature of dreams themselves that part of the film was a bit disappointing. I actually enjoyed the scientific components and explanations but did think that some more character development might have been helpful. One scene that sticks most in my mind is when they are underground in the room filled with people that were now unable to dream on their own and would come to "wake up". This scenario is not uncommon in our culture, looking at the impact of media and how much stimulation marketing has to create now in order to keep us engaged (i.e. through increased images per second and playing on personal fears). This is also very easily mirrored into our reality with the video game culture.

One of the threads that I pulled from the film was the play on the concept of what reality is and how each person's reality is unique. The lengths to which our minds will go to maintain psychological balance seem to be hinted at throughout the film (i.e. when the person "senses" an outside force in their dreams and when they are trained to fight back mentally, possibly referencing "coping mechanisms"). Part of this survival instinct is tied into how we manifest our fears and regrets. The inability to continuously suppress the things we feel we can not face is larger than life in its visual representation here and more clearly illustrated then we would find in daily life. For me this highlights the importance of the struggle, rather than the character itself, as a key concept in the film.

Perhaps the most engaging aspect of the film overall is its ability to relate to individuals on different levels depending upon their perspective and individual reality. Any film that can inspire as much discussion as this one has for myself and so many others that have seen it can not be anything else but a success.

The Sorcerer's Apprentice -

I found this film to be very good, but I think that this is definitely a case where what you expect out of it greatly impacts how much you enjoy it. It seems to me to be targetted at the 8 years and up crowd as some of the action may be a bit much for younger kids (depending on what kind of movies they like and are accustomed to seeing). I wish there had been some more time spent on when Dave (the apprentice) was younger and on the backstory of Balthazar Blake (the sorcerer). I think they missed out on a great opportunity for a more mature storyline by leaving out the latter. It was predictable, yes, but it was also engaging enough to keep my attention throughout the film. The female love interests were portrayed more as counterparts to the leads then the expected "damsel in distress" that fills a lot of movies. Probably Nicholas Cage's best movie in years, let's face it - he's been struggling.

It only plays loosely with the concept drawn from the film "Fantasia" that featured a short starring Mickey as the apprentice and Yensid as the sorcerer (Disney spelled backwards, useless information I know but after working at WDW for a couple years I'm full of stuff like that). If you are looking to sit back, relax, and take a trip back to those naive feelings of excitement from your childhood then I would definitely recommend catching this film. Go in cautiously optimistic and be willing to let yourself feel like a kid again and you won't be disappointed.

My Sister's Middle Monkey

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Turned 2 years old today <3
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Last Sunday we all got together for pizza, cake, and presents. He got a surprising amount of bubbles and bubble related toys this year :) We got him a kids chair with bean bag filling, a bubble gun that sits in a holster to refill, and an eco-rocket (requires no batteries to light up and make sounds). He was adorable, as were his brothers. It was a great day. Happy birthday little guy!

Food, Friends, & Fun

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First, I neglected last week to announce that I have been working on another blog that I recently made public (included in the blog links on the left here). It is called Cooking for Peace of Mind and includes some of my recipes along with a brief narrative on their inspiration. A short description of the motivation for the blog is in the right hand column. I'd love it if you checked it out and let me know what you think!

Ok, so now for the weekend :)

Saturday we hosted our first Supper Club. The menu: appetizers - bacon wrapped parmesan cheese cubes, fried tortillas with homemade salsa, and stuffed banana peppers; main dishes - chicken scampi, bacon and tenderloin steak skewers, potato salad, and slow roasted tomatoes with fresh mozzarella; dessert - homemade Irish ice cream with dark & white chocolate chip blonde brownies. I hope everyone enjoyed the food as much as we did! It was so much fun to be able to share a nice evening together just hanging out and having a good time with friends.

Sunday me and my mom went to my friend Christine's baby shower. It was lovely and she looked so happy and beautiful! They played some cute games, my favorite was when they gave us fabric markers and had everyone decorate an article of clothing for the baby-to-be. I was really happy to be able to site with my friend Jeannie and her mom, whom I haven't seen in years, and catch up on things. Hopefully we'll keep in touch better, we really can't let it go that long between seeing eachother again :)

Tonight is my monthly cooking class at Filippa's with Chef Bub, I'm very excited for the second installment of the BBQ theme.

I hope that you had a nice and relaxing weekend (I'm hoping for one of tose relaxing ones soon!) and that your week was able to start off on a good note.